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A quick backstory. MyAround the time I was born, my mom and dadbiological father broke up when I born because of domestic violence, my dad. He helped gave us with money in the first year of my life andbut then went to work abroad, and left since then. I didn't sawseen him for a over a decade (he didn't have any interess on my and neitherinterest in me, nor I had on him). Fast forward a couple ofFourteen years (14 to be precise) meafter he left, my mom and, my stepfather (the onewho I consider my real father) and I encountered him on the street with his family, and he talked to me and asked if we could beget together and catch up on each other lifeslives. I didn't mind because he is my biological father and I had some questions to ask him. Since then we, we've met up 1 to 2 times a year and talk about random stuff (because we don't have that much in common) and he usually gives-me me money (150€ to 250€). The

The only reason I metmeet with him is because the money, I dontdon't have interest in him beyond that. Before

Before I metmeet with him, my mom gives-me me a speachspeech about what he has done to us and that he didntdidn't support me onin the first years of my life, after. I told her that the only reason toI go is to have some money. I dontdon't have financial problems but having more money is better. Is my mom overreacting or I should feel bad about all this stuff?

A quick backstory. My mom and dad broke up when I born because of domestic violence, my dad helped gave us money in the first year of my life and then went to work abroad, and left since then I didn't saw him (he didn't have any interess on my and neither I had on him). Fast forward a couple of years (14 to be precise) me, my mom and my stepfather (the one I consider my real father) encountered him on the street with his family, and he talked to me and asked if we could be together and catch up on each other lifes. I didn't mind because he is my father and I had some questions to ask him. Since then we met up 1 to 2 times a year and talk about random stuff (because we don't have that much in common) and he usually gives-me money (150€ to 250€). The only reason I met with him is because the money, I dont have interest in him. Before I met with him my mom gives-me a speach about what he has done to us and that he didnt support me on the first years of my life, after I told her that the only reason to go is to have some money. I dont have financial problems but having more money is better. Is my mom overreacting or I should feel bad about all this stuff?

Around the time I was born, my mom and biological father broke up because of domestic violence. He helped us with money in the first year of my life but then went to work abroad. I didn't seen him for a over a decade (he didn't have any interest in me, nor I him). Fourteen years after he left, my mom, my stepfather (who I consider my real father) and I encountered him on the street with his family, and he talked to me and asked if we could get together and catch up on each other lives. I didn't mind because he is my biological father and I had some questions to ask him. Since then, we've met up 1 to 2 times a year and talk about random stuff (because we don't have that much in common) and he usually gives me money (150€ to 250€).

The only reason I meet with him is because the money, I don't have interest in him beyond that.

Before I meet with him, my mom gives me a speech about what he has done to us and that he didn't support me in the first years of my life. I told her that the only reason I go is to have some money. I don't have financial problems but having more money is better. Is my mom overreacting or I should feel bad about all this stuff?

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Should I feel bad about this or my mom is overreacting?

A quick backstory. My mom and dad broke up when I born because of domestic violence, my dad helped gave us money in the first year of my life and then went to work abroad, and left since then I didn't saw him (he didn't have any interess on my and neither I had on him). Fast forward a couple of years (14 to be precise) me, my mom and my stepfather (the one I consider my real father) encountered him on the street with his family, and he talked to me and asked if we could be together and catch up on each other lifes. I didn't mind because he is my father and I had some questions to ask him. Since then we met up 1 to 2 times a year and talk about random stuff (because we don't have that much in common) and he usually gives-me money (150€ to 250€). The only reason I met with him is because the money, I dont have interest in him. Before I met with him my mom gives-me a speach about what he has done to us and that he didnt support me on the first years of my life, after I told her that the only reason to go is to have some money. I dont have financial problems but having more money is better. Is my mom overreacting or I should feel bad about all this stuff?