Timeline for Why does my mother expect me to behave like others and herself?
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| Jan 3, 2017 at 4:33 | history | edited | Aquarius_Girl | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
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| Jul 2, 2015 at 7:12 | comment | added | Thorbjørn Ravn Andersen | My mistake - I forgot 1) cultures are different and 2) asking how these things work in your culture, so I implicitly assumed that you were in a culture similar to mine where saying things like this would not necessarily burn bridges but rather open doors. Is this a culture-clash thing? | |
| Jul 2, 2015 at 3:48 | comment | added | Aquarius_Girl |
@ThorbjørnRavnAndersen I am from India. so, -- and that unless something change very drastically she will not be seeing her grandkid(s) as much as she could?-- talking like this is NOT normal here. It is simply not permitted. Saying something like this will be burning the bridges permanently. Have you informed your mother why things are as they are, Yes, but talking to her is like talking to walls. She wants to take me to a mental doctor so that I can start behaving like "other normal people" do.
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| Jul 1, 2015 at 12:20 | comment | added | Thorbjørn Ravn Andersen | I understand you fully. Have you informed your mother why things are as they are, and that unless something change very drastically she will not be seeing her grandkid(s) as much as she could? | |
| Jul 1, 2015 at 11:36 | comment | added | Aquarius_Girl | @ThorbjørnRavnAndersen I have learnt that one way to win a battle is simply not to appear for the battle. I have stopped telling her most of the happenings of my life so that she gets least chance to interfere. | |
| Jul 1, 2015 at 10:44 | comment | added | Thorbjørn Ravn Andersen | Now two years later - how did this turn out? | |
| Apr 14, 2015 at 8:32 | comment | added | RedSonja | There are no end of useful answers here, so I won't add one, but a comment: Now my kids are big and leaving the nest, I keep in mind all these things I didn't like my parents doing, and try not to do them myself. | |
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| Mar 26, 2013 at 22:51 | history | tweeted | twitter.com/#!/StackParenting/status/316683791043276801 | ||
| Mar 26, 2013 at 16:35 | answer | added | Karl Bielefeldt | timeline score: 5 | |
| Mar 26, 2013 at 15:03 | answer | added | Chrys | timeline score: 5 | |
| Mar 26, 2013 at 14:33 | answer | added | Torben Gundtofte-Bruun | timeline score: 4 | |
| Mar 26, 2013 at 14:28 | answer | added | Meg Coates | timeline score: 14 | |
| Mar 26, 2013 at 13:25 | answer | added | user420 | timeline score: 18 | |
| Mar 26, 2013 at 4:57 | history | edited | Aquarius_Girl | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
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| Mar 26, 2013 at 4:51 | history | asked | Aquarius_Girl | CC BY-SA 3.0 |