Timeline for My daughter just turned 13 and confides in me she wants to be a boy
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| Nov 18, 2020 at 9:18 | comment | added | Peter - Reinstate Monica | @Frank Thanks. That is a surprising thing to say then. I hope one can be a competent user without being a troll. | |
| Nov 18, 2020 at 9:10 | comment | added | Frank | @Peter-ReinstateMonica He is saying that by trying to make her a competent user you'd be trying to turn her into a 'cyber warrior' or 'internet chat warrior' or more accurately a 'troll'. | |
| Nov 18, 2020 at 8:00 | comment | added | Peter - Reinstate Monica | @GraySheep I seriously do not understand your comment, except that you doubt a 13 year old girl can be a competent social media user. You may not be a native speaker. "teaching her for": Do you mean "teaching her about", i.e. let her learn about cyber conflicts? "Need a chat fighter from her" is unintelligible. Do you mean "for her", i.e., have a third person participate in the chats and fight by her side? | |
| Nov 17, 2020 at 23:28 | comment | added | Gray Sheep | @Peter-ReinstateMonica About (1): there is no way to make a 13yr old girl to a competent user. Maybe a strong ideological support, and then teaching her for cyber conflicts. Effectively, you would need a "chat fighter" from her. Yet more clearly, a troll. | |
| Sep 9, 2020 at 9:44 | comment | added | Peter - Reinstate Monica | I didn't downvote but I note the following: (1) You cannot "shield" your children from social media. (What you can and should do is make them competent users.) (2) The OP cannot do anything about a lacking father role. Also, an increasing number of kids grow up without a father in the household and are doing just fine. (3) This 13 year old may be considered ill-behaved, but you know what': I'd assume a developmental problem in any 13 year old who isn't! It is normal, even necessary for 13 year-olds to misbehave. (3) Sending the mother on a guilt-trip for bad parenting does not help anyone. | |
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| Sep 9, 2020 at 9:09 | history | answered | Frank | CC BY-SA 4.0 |