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Sep 12, 2014 at 18:40 comment added sbi @Ellisa: And I didn't say you said that. :) I can appreciate your POV on the matter. I, too, have known couples who should have separated decades ago, to the benefit of everybody in the vicinity.
Sep 11, 2014 at 20:23 comment added Ellisa @sbi Agreed, it is only one data point. I wasn't saying at all that OP should definitely divorce, and that the kids will be immediately be happy as a result of the divorce. I'm only saying in my experience, children, even very young children, understand more than you think, and are really affected by parents fighting or being unhappy all the time. I would have preferred being the child of divorced parents, tough though that would have been, than being stressed and anxious all the time through the majority of my childhood.
Sep 11, 2014 at 17:34 comment added user158010 Thank you for the kind comments and for the advice. That is about where my head was at when I asked the question.
Sep 10, 2014 at 22:19 comment added sbi That's a very good data point, but it's only one. There's people who grew up with divorced parents, and they wish it was the opposite. (I do happen to be on your side of the fence, BTW. I just wanted to point out that there's other opinions on this which are just as well deserved as ours. There's no Proof By Anecdote.)
Sep 10, 2014 at 18:21 history answered Ellisa CC BY-SA 3.0