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Effects on children and parents of marriage breaking up
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When I separated from the mother from my child, he was 1 year and 10 months old. I was also thinking of staying together "for the sake of the kid", and she too, so nobody had courage to break up. I ...

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Custodial arrangements in co-parenting: frequency of transfers from one parent to the other
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I am a father and also a co-parent and my boy is two years 3 months old. I take him from the kindergarten Wednesdays and Thursdays, and on those days the caregiver of the kindergarten is putting my ...

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How to discuss with my kids returning to dating
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I think its not the matter of explaining them adult companionship, its ensuring them that you love them and will be always be there no matter what. It's ensuring them they have nothing to lose. Ensure ...

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Help 8 year old is very lazy and does not focus
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You could also try to find other kids or parents who have an inspirating power over your kid, and arrange that your kid does his homework together with this influencing person. Until I was 17 I HATED ...

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How do I motivate my ten-year old to take responsibility and to do his best?
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It seems for me that you are concentrating too much on the weakness of your kid. When I was young, my father always complained that I was too weak for studying or for life and he was always trying to ...

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What are some tips for making an international flight with a toddler?
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I do not know how old your kid is, but I had to travel 12 hours with my 2 year old and his mother, and this worked well: -Travel during the night, so the baby is tired and willing to sleep -Make ...

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Why does my son of 12 yo only talk and behave nonsense in front of me?
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I have the feeling that inscribing him and yourself in an improvisation theatre course might be benefitial to both you and him. What you described just makes me remember a time in my life when ...

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How to encourage a child to self-edit and take criticism positively?
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I remember my experience of when I was having writing classes on the school pretty well. When the teacher made critics to my text, it was often impossible to turn the critics into something practical ...

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How to teach tact and empathic understanding based communication to an INTJ (overly honest) child?
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Until 22 or 24 years old I was also acting as if truth was the most important thing in life, and the way I was acting it also cost me friendships. As a results, I got depressed, had to go to ...

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How to help my son to resolve the problem with school bullies?
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When my son who is three years old told me that a kid was always hitting him, I approached the mother of the kid and asked her how could my son make his kid stop it. Because she should be the best ...

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Should I allow or forbid my son to visit the education of a religion that I do not share?
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Your son is just a human and he will always face this kind of situation. Forbidding him to make his own choices and mistakes will have the effect that he will never learn the consequences of his ...

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Should you pick a baby up everytime it cries?
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When I had the same question, I did not base my behaviour on the opinion of the specialists or scientists. Some years ago, they would say this creates dependency, and now I always see some specialists ...

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Reasoning vs "because I say so"
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You and the mother of your kid are a team. If you were not, you could just split apart, isnt it? When you are a manager of a department and you want to build your own team, you have basically two ...

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