I am young so I understand many things "parents" do not understand.
Too many "parents" virtue signal and the fact that they come to an online forum to seek help is dangerous. If your not prepared to be a parent, maybe you should have not become a parent.
Maybe...just maybe my insights on how children work and act since I was recently one and interact with many every day. I can give the "parents" a working solution rather than emotion driven strict nonsense.
When it comes to caring for you child, the most important rule is to not care about how the public will view you. Is it really worth it to torment your child for some social points?