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Leaving aside the moral issues (as hopefully you are aware of those), and leaving aside whether you should intervene (a very good question itself), in their mind, this is something between the other parents and their son, so why are they involving you? If they want their son not to go, that’s their call, but they should not abstain responsibility for that ...


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What should I do As little as possible. Since they are best friends, I assume there isn't a large age gap. So I think that whatever they were doing happened because both agreed to it, and was legal where you live. IMO, that's the most important thing to establish. If you have any doubt about this, you should intervene. TL;DR: The important stuff The ...


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In addition to Joe's good answer, I would say that passing this request on to your son is going to send a very clear message to him about your priorities. You probably don't want to do that. I suggest you go back to the friend's parents and say that you've thought it over, and realised that if you asked such a thing of your son he would not only reject the ...


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Don't panic. It may or may not be an issue. The most important thing is to establish a strong relationship with your son. Being his mother will help because the subject is less confronting when it is the parent of the opposite sex talking. Given he is a teen, it can be a confusing time and may just be a phase on the way to working out where on the range ...


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