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Age specific questions from about 8 years to about 11 years. Younger: primary-schooler. Older: pre-teen.

3 votes

My 9-year-old daughter is a wallflower around friends. How do I help her?

For some kids, exposing themselves to a group of others is difficult. I can imagine your daugther is afraid of being rejected or ridiculed by the group in public, and might need a bit of help to overc …
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2 votes

Talk about a weird music video from YT to an 9 yrs old

How about asking your son why he thinks it's funny, and then taking it from there, depending on how he answers? I don't think you have to make a big issue out of this, but taking the time to talk to …
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2 votes

Backed into a corner with 9-year-old and tablet confiscation

other than enforcing what is probably a disproportionate punishment and consequence I don't think the consequences are disproportionate. You warned your son that he needs to stop or he would hav …
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2 votes

Completing the homework - how much is this in parents' responsibility and up to which age?

When you say that "learning can't be forced", I agree with you in so far as it's extremely inefficient to teach someone who doesn't want to learn. But that doesn't mean that you can't provide a contex …
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21 votes

Overcoming an irrational fear of long guns

I like Chris' answer, but consider that there is a difference between spiders and guns. Guns are actually dangerous, while many spiders we encounter daily aren't. So while your daughter's anxiety migh …
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3 votes

A boy at school told my 8-year-old daugther she had fat thighs. How to boost her self-esteem...

How to boost her self-esteem and make her eat healthier? I don't think you can do both at once. Your goals seem mutually exclusive to me, especially if stated in the same sentence (meaning these …
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5 votes

Is school punishment for mediocre test results reasonable?

Yesterday I got an email from our daughter's new teacher saying that some of the children performed poorly on a geography quiz and it was "not reflective of their true potential." As punishment she …
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6 votes

Separated parents. As a dad, how do I exercise tough love without being the bad guy?

I couldn't bring myself to try and force a separation. And in all honesty I have a crisis of confidence in my own ability to do any better. I have a very demanding job and giving him any more atten …
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