My son, who is currently 9 years of age, tells me that life is absolutely meaningless and that "we're all here to waste time". When he first told me this, I felt both angry and depressed. And no, this is not because I am religious. I am an atheist, but I think his outlook on life is detrimental. From an even younger age, teachers and I myself have observed that he is very intelligent, mature and highly interested in mathematics and physics since an early age. One thing that I think is leading him to believe that life is meaningless is because he's very anti-social and often teachers tell me that he never talks in class and remains aloof (in his own world). Some of his behavioral attributes include: - Was a late talker - didn't talk til he was 6. - He spends most of his time alone outside in a forest and the only time I speak with him is when he comes for dinner, breakfast and lunch. - When he's home, he rarely talks to me other than on eating occasions. - I have been since consequently told that he is "different in a strange way" by many people. Somebody suggested that I give him the internet so he could search around, make friends and other things. He only used it three times and told me that "It's a great place to attain knowledge but other than that, it's horrible." After this, I consulted a teacher from his school and she told me that I should sit down and talk with him. And this is when he told me that life is meaningless. He said, > "Look. I know what you are trying to do. I know that you're worried > about me. I know that you've been talking to a lot of people about my > behaviour. But why do you want me to live my life the way others want? > Life, by it's nature, is absolutely meaningless. Imagine yourself to > suddenly wake up in a room, knowing of nothing, except the fact that > you'll die within the next two hours. Would you attach importance to > anything you would do during this period? Ofcourse not! All I know is > that I am alive, a son of yours, on a beautiful diverse planet > somewhere in the cosmos, and all I am interested is in knowing why did > we acquire existence. This may be impossible, but I'd rather pursue > the great impossible than spend my life living accordingly to the > sentiments of people!" He has no friends and nobody that even knows him properly. I feel that he'll go on to acquire mental illnesses as he ages, I don't know why but I don't feel good. Is there anyway to convince my son not to adopt this nihilistic outlook on life?