Questions tagged [sex]
Questions about sexual activities, including sexual intercourse, interest in sex, childhood sex play, and masturbation.
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11-year-old daughter is anxious, lying, and sexualising everything
Hi bit of a long post.
My eleven-year-old daughter is currently waiting assessment with calms for anxiety. It’s been on going for years but starting high school really set it off again. She was ...
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Will my behavior towards my son affect his future married life?
My son (M20) is still studying in college and scores well in his subjects. I noticed he started befriending girls his age and driving with them on bikes, so I confronted him about this matter. He ...
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Should we be concerned about preschool siblings playing "sexual" games?
My wife recently discovered our 6 and 4 year old daughters playing an imaginary game where they were pretending to be "husband and wife" and they both had their pants off. As soon as she ...
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Is there anything I need to know about my son's uncircumcised penis?
My son is very young, so this information is for the future.
I'm a circumcised male, I know pretty well how everything works down there.
Is there any information that should be given to ...
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What to do when we are concerned about the sexualisation of our 20-month-old son?
My baby is 20 months old. He cannot talk that well, mostly only saying a few words clearly or baby speak. He goes to nursery twice a week, for the rest of the time he is at home with his mother.
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How to deal with children when parents are caught in the act?
A near relative discussed this issue with me. They have 2 sons and 2 daughters and everyone sleeps in the same room. They cannot afford as of now to live in a large apartment with separate room for ...
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Our 8 year old son saw us having sex [duplicate]
Our 8 year old son saw my wife and I having sex the other day. Now I don't see anything wrong with it, yet my wife is unsure. What should happen here?
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My son's girlfriend has been cheating with my best friend's son. Should I get involved?
Fake names, so it's easier to understand:
My son: Bob
My son's girlfriend: Alice
My best friend's son: Chester
They're all 18 and 19. Bob and Chester aren't friends.
My best friend told me about the ...
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Five-year-old son constantly fondling himself - is it normal?
When my five-year-old son wears some comfy clothes, like joggers or pyjamas especially after school, he tends to either sit on the sofa or lie on the floor and basically fondle himself. He started ...
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Stepson and girlfriend never come in the house now that we set limits
My husband and I are a second marriage. His son is now 19 but I've known him for almost 6 years. He lives in our home and goes to school full time as well as works part time.
He and his college ...
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How do I change my son's views, after he confessed to me that he rather be with prostitutes over having an actual girlfriend?
Last weekend, me and my 18-year-old son, who just recently enrolled in college, were having a conversation about dating and relationships. I would have never expected this from him in a million years, ...
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How to respond to 17 year old daughter going out with a 25 year old man?
I have just found out that my 17 year old daughter is going out with a local 25 year old. I feel the age gap is way too big at her age. We're in the UK, so it's perfectly legal.
He does seem a very ...
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Finding out who initiated sexual contact. What needs to be done?
I live with my girl friend and her 5 year old son, and my 7 year old daughter. Recently they were found in the closet suspiciously. Her son had his boxers improperly outside his shorts. So his mom ...
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Is it possible for an 8 year girl to be sexually abused and enjoy it?
Due to some recent findings of something, I'm really worried my niece is being sexually abused. I honestly think she is in some sort of "relationship" with someone that she loves and trusts and doesn'...
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What to do when my 4-year-old daughter "plays doctor" with her cousin of almost the same age? [duplicate]
My 4-year-old daughter "played doctor" with her cousin, who was only a few months older than her at the time. I didn't know what was going on, I just figured they found something quiet to do, but ...
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What to do about the incestuous relationship between my daughter and her cousin?
I walked in on my daughter having sex with her cousin. They are both 14 years old. It happened in my sister's house in her double bed. I wasn't sure on how I should react but I told my sister and she ...
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My 15-year-old daughter is having sex with her boyfriend who is a drug dealer
My daughter is 15 and her boyfriend is 17. They are having sex and I'm not sure if I want her to.
On top of that, her boyfriend is a drug dealer, but she thinks that he is cool because he makes a ...
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how should you deal with siblings or cousins that are sexually active with each other? [closed]
Note: I don't have children myself, nor do I intend to have any, but I think it could be an interesting question.
Suppose you have 2 children (gender is irrelevant for this question) within 3 years ...
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11 year old son searching for porn
I've recently had a quick look at my son's iPod touch and found a large google searches for various pornographic phrases.
He's a little bit advanced in terms of hormones, etc. (e.g. voice broken, ...
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My son has been offered money by a classmate, if he would pull down his underwear
My son, B., has a close friend, G., and a class mate, M. They are all eight years old.
It has come to my attention that M. has offered G. money, if G. would hit himself. G. did and used the money to ...
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What should I do if my 15 year old son is sexually interested in younger boys?
My 15 year old son has just confessed to me that he is interested in younger children, especially boys ages 8 to 11. He seemed very upset about this. I tried to calm him down a bit, but am left ...
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What should we do when our 15 year old wants sex with his 13 year old girlfriend?
So the other day I walked in on our teenager and caught his girlfriend with her pants down. It is quite clear what they were intending to do.
Now he claims he had no intention of having sex with her,...
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Should children be preemptively taught about drugs, alcohol, and sex?
This is a follow up to When should you start talking with your children about sex?. Is it better for parents to preemptively educate children about taboo subjects such as drugs, alcohol, sex, or ...
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My daughter is having sex with guys 10 years older than her; what do I do? [closed]
Hey everyone I have a huge issue I need to talk about..
My 12 year old daughter has been going around having sex with MULTIPLE guys 8 to 10 years older than her and has gotten a STD. I'm worried she ...
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5 yr old son behaving sexually
My son is 5 years old.
Over the last few months I have been observing some disturbing sexual behavior from my child.
He is rubbing his penis on the bed or pillow. Sometimes he would get naked and ...
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How damaging is it for children to witness their parent's sexual activity?
How damaging is it for children to witness their parent's sexual activity?
I asked this question here Some strategies for maintaining adult relationships separately from children?
Which needed to be ...
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Some strategies for maintaining adult relationships separately from children?
Some background.
I have always been extremely careful about taking precautions to prevent my children from ever walking in on me when engaging in sexual activity. I've had a relationship with my next ...
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At what age do teenagers begin to masturbate?
This is a delicate question. It is not a subject that I can ask my children about.
At what age can a parent expect this activity to start?
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What are appropriate boundaries between siblings?
I have three children, my younger two are a 13 year old boy and a 12 year old girl.
They are both maturing and going through puberty.
Gone are the days of my little son doing little naked dances, ...
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What harm is porn?
It is generally accepted that porn shouldn't be seen by children, and we even sometimes punish parents who fail to stop their children from finding porn.
What is the justification? The only "damage" ...
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How do parents have sex when there's a toddler in the house?
Scenario: 1-bedroom apartment and there's no one else living in the house to watch the toddler. Any recommendation?
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How to talk with your teenage son when he caught you having sex with your partner? [duplicate]
My husband and I got caught by my teenager son having oral sex. I am embarrassed and I don't know how to handle it. Can you give me any advise?
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My son is 5 years old and sexually active
I am a 20 year old female student and I have a 5 year old son who is really sexually active. For instance, he kisses girls by force, he forces them to lick his penis, he "fingers" them, he speaks ...
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How do you respond when a child catches his parents having sex?
I ask this Question on behalf of my neighbor.
Their 12 year old son saw his parents having sex.
As there is only one room in their home we can't say its the parents' mistake... but now the question ...
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How to explain to a toddler when masturbation is appropriate?
Our toddler has discovered the joys of having her hand down the front of her panties. Frequently.
Now, we don't want to tell her that doing so is wrong, but we want to explain to her that there's an ...
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What would be a effective way to explain pornography?
With the availability of the internet and also the video mobile device (PSP, ...) our children will face pornography at an earlier age than we have. So I want to face this problem and explain things ...
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Sex play in young children
I have a 3 year old daughter who spends a bit of time playing with her male cousin who is 5 1/2. I recently walked in to my daughter's room where they were playing to find my daughter completely ...
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