I'm a mother and I have a daughter in high school. She is taking a gym class that has both boys and girls. The teacher is a woman. Sometimes, they play a classic game called capture the flag. But they don't exactly play it the traditional way because they wear tails while playing. By tails, I mean that it's a type of jersey called a pinny. You have to tuck the pinny into your backside, between your shorts and your underwear. To get someone eliminated from the game, you have to pull out their tail. My daughter is a pretty good athlete. That's why when she was playing capture the flag recently, multiple boys ran up to her at the same time. They tried to pull out her tail and they were quite aggressive about it. She fell down, but not before they had lowered her shorts a little bit and exposed her underwear. They didn't do it on purpose and they apologized. They were playing on a big field, and no one else noticed, but she was still really embarrassed. We both think that this game is inappropriate. Should we both complain to the teacher, or should my daughter do it herself? Or should we keep quiet?
Also, had you ever heard of this variation of capture the flag?