My 12-year-old daughter is an only child. A few months ago, she had her first birthday party to which both boys and girls were invited. She chose a neighborhood restaurant to have a small dinner.
She knows twins, a boy and a girl. My daughter invited only the boy, since she's friends with him. The mother of the twins replied "Yes" immediately but several days later asked me if the invitation was for both her children. I said the invitation was for her son. She let me know he would not be attending because he was not comfortable attending without his sister. My daughter spoke to him later and this was not the case. He wanted to attend my daughter’s party. The mother was upset that both twins were not invited. The girl twin is still bringing it up to my daughter’s friends and it happened back in May.
I feel like I screwed this up by not inviting both kids to the party, but my husband said my daughter should be able to invite who she is friends with to her party. I feel horrible! Did I screw this up?