I am a little over 3 months away from having my first child. My baby girl is due at the end of August/beginning of September. However, my parents live a 4.5 hours drive from where my wife and I live. So my concern is....Holidays (specifically Thanksgiving and Christmas). I assume a 4.5 hour car drive with 2 adults is really about a 5-6 hour car drive with a 2 to 3 month old and I'm not sure it would be healthy for the baby to travel that long.
Am I being an overly anxious new parent or would I be justified in telling the new grandparents they need to come to us for the Holidays this year or just not see us this year?