My 8-year-old daughter is soiling her pants daily and couldn't care less about the whole situation with I am just about out of patience.
She is collected daily from school with soiled pants and has been sitting in it for hours and she absolutely smells of poo and her school shorts are stuck to her skin and she couldn't care less. When she is at home on the weekend she is constantly changing her soiled underpants and pants at least 6 or more a day. She also refuses to wipe her bottom. She has a poo, gets up and goes.
I have been to the doctor who has ruled out any medical conditions making her do this and also when we were at the doctors she was clenching so hard to not go and do her poo she was shaking. The doctor believes it is complete laziness causing the problem, as if she had that much control over holding it in, there is no medical reason she can't do it in the toilet.
I'm after any suggestions as if this keeps going on at school she is going to be bullied and made fun of.