My brother in law family is coming to visit us for a little less than 2 months in USA from India. I know that sounds a lot but it is common in our culture to stay at immediate relative place for that long since we are very close and they are travelling from all the way from India for the first time. They have two kids one 8-year-old daughter and one 2-year-old boy. I have one daughter who will be around 1 year and 2 months when they visit us next year. When I have visited them in the past - I have seen their older daughter being very mean to other kids. I have seen her pinch other kids in the stomach when no one is looking sometimes for some reason (i.e toy or some other thing) and sometimes for no reason (not sure if she enjoys hurting other kids). In mind of my brother in law she is an ideal kid and takes care of her younger siblings. Whenever they find her in the fault ie if they find her hurting the younger brother they reprimand her very badly which I don’t want to happen in my home.
My daughter will be in the day care most of the weekdays but I am afraid that their older daughter will hurt my daughter while playing with each other in some or other way. I want some suggestions on how to tackle this situation in such way that I don’t make big deal out of it because this is the only time they will be visiting us before our daughter is little older I want to lay low and don’t want to confront them about it, but at the same time make sure she doesn’t hurt my daughter.