I am divorced with 2 boys and my significant other has a girl. My boys are 11 and 7, and she is 7. What brought me here is me not understanding certain things such as, my significant other asks me to tell my 11 year old to put a shirt on because he's in front of or around his daughter.
I don't agree this is necessary. Boys go around with no shirts all the time... my significant others response, "it doesn't matter she's not your daughter."
I don't understand, please shed some light.