I am 38-year-old mother to a 13-year-old son. He is close friends with a boy (let's call him Alex).
I have noticed earlier Alex behaving weirdly before me like complimenting me on my looks, things I wear. I was uncomfortable and didn't respond warmly to his comments. I avoided them.
Recently, I saw Alex in my room looking at my undergarments drawer (and even holding one in hand). He saw me and he just left, running from there. I was not able to confront him there and talk. I was in kind of a shock myself.
My questions are:
- Should I confront Alex and talk with or just avoid him?
- Should I let him on our house again?
- I don't want my son to be friends with a boy like him. Should I tell my son to stop being friends with Alex. Will it work? Should I let them be friends? How do I make sure Alex won't be a bad influence on my son?