My 3-year-old will take a long time doing anything. If nobody stops her, she'll spend an hour in the bathroom. Meals will essentially never end unless somebody keeps reminding her to eat or else helps feed her (something she is perfectly capable of doing by herself).
Since we'll often have things going on (school, appointments, etc.), I can't have her taking as long as she wants. But I feel like I spend half of my time telling her to "hurry up" or reminding her to eat her dinner. How do I get her to focus and hurry up a bit more? I don't need her to scarf down her food or make a super quick trip to the bathroom; I just need her to do things at a standard pace. Even a slow pace would be ok.