I have a relatively problematic situation with my mum that I can't really talk about to somebody.
As long as I remember my mum and me had (at least most of the time) a good relation to each other. I'm 21 years old now, after I finished school two years ago, I moved to a larger city (about 150km away, which is considered relatively "far" where I come from ;)) and started working there since the job situation there was and is still much better.
Since I moved out, my mum called me every evening, the first months I had to come home every weekend (now it's just every second but still a lot especially because it takes me at least three hours to get there). Now, if I'm not at home on weekend she calls me like three or four times, both saturday and sunday. If I'm not at my flat she writes me "tons" of text messages.
My mum "annoying" (it's not really annoying, but I can't find a word that fits better) me actually keeps me from having my own life I think. For example: on our phone call every evening she always asks me if I eventually found a girlfriend which is simply impossible. After an eight hours workday with about one and a half hours of travel time plus about one hour talking to my mum there is not much time left to spend on doing such things. I'd like to use the weekend for something like that but usually I have to spend that time with her as well. She also wants me to move back to her (yes, the same house) after I finished my apprenticeship. To her it also seems obvious that I "want" to spend all of my holiday with her, she never thinks that I could actually want to go somewhere on my own.
So instead of using the time I have to solve my own problems I have to either talk with my mum about things I'm not interested in at all (like what her neighbours friend had to lunch..) or help solve her problems, which is pretty difficult sometimes.
Every time I tried talking with her about my problem she started to cry or make me feel bad and guilty so I don't know how I could change that situation.
I think the problem is that she always used to spend her free time with me instead of her friends or even her husband (my dad ^^) and she wants to keep that.
I really hope somebody here has an advice how I could change this situation or talk about it with my mum because it's very frustrating and I actually love my mum, but currently I don't even want to answer the phone when I see it's her.