To try to keep the story short... I got divorced almost 4 yrs ago and I have a 11, 12 & 15 yr old.
Now I had my suspicions, but I guess I wanted to look the other way and not find out whether it was real or not.
Going through the divorce I found out that my 12 yr old (middle child) was not my biological child. That of course broke my heart, but I was more upset about what it was going to do to her when she found out. In a way I decided not to say anything. Every now and then my daughter asks "you do that?" and then says "I must of have gotten that from you". Recently she had a seizure and when the doctor asked about family history the ex-wife was quick to say no history of seizures. All of that got me thinking if I was doing the right thing, I'm trying to protect my 3 kids from the heart break, she just trying to protect herself.
What are your thoughts?