I used to hold my son's hands when he was 2-3months for helping him sleep longer at night, but I never knew it will give him a habit to MUST sleep with my hands.
I don't mind to hold his hands to make him sleep at all. The thing is he still wake up 3-4 or 4-5 times at night and he needs to cuddle my hands or arm to back to sleep. I never have one through night sleep ever since he's born. I have to work during the day too. He is so attached to me that I can't even take a shift with my husband because he will cry for me during the night.
I've tried everything by giving him night light, stuffed toys, or blankets etc. nothing works....
I really miss my through-the-night sleep. (T-T). And I really need all of your opinions to help. Thank you!