I will try to make this short... Every time my son's dad shows his face, my son cries himself to sleep. His dad tries to console him but it never works. It always gets to the point of his dad feeling the need to spank our son to make him hush. It only makes it worse when he tries to use discipline when our son has done no wrong.
The dad blames me for feeling how I felt when I was pregnant with our child. I agreed with him on that. I just don't like how the dad is treating him because our son never wants his dad. Me and his dad argue every time he comes to visit.
I usually let his dad take him knowing he's scared and doesn't want to go. His dad doesn't see him often at all, so at any time he wants to see his son or take him for a day, I let him.
I hate his dad, but I will never keep my son away from his dad when his dad wants to see him. What, more or less, should I do to get my son to want his dad?