My wife is pregnant with her 8th child. She has 3 from her first marriage, 2 more with another relation, and I married her and we have 2 more. She got pregnant while she has both an IUD and is on birth control.
We barely have enough money, we work a lot. She wants to keep this kid and I don't. All the kids range from 19, 18, 15, 10, 9, 5, 4.
I think it is irresponsible for us to have another kid when we have so many and it is difficult to raise these 7 kids, let alone have one more.
What can I do to change her mind?