I live in an under-military-coup-too-much-corrupted-country. There is a big gap between values and reality.
For example, policeman or military soldier should be a model for kids; They -normally- love him or -at least- feel safe while he is around. In my country, it is the inverse, stay away of them as much as you can. So the kids learn from school or TV that 'ask the policeman for help' and learn from us 'never ever talk to a policeman'.
This is just one example of conflict between values and what happens in reality.
Question: What shall I tell me kids? The reality or the values?