As adolescents become adults, they will go through the phase typically where they don't like or want to be around their parents. This seems to me to be beyond that standard part of growing up.
You should seek counselling, heck maybe for the whole family so you can find the root cause. There is something going on at school or at home that is driving a wedge between you and your daughter that you are not aware of. As the parent, itsit's up to you to step up and make her go to counselling and to not quit until you know what is going on.
The other thing to do is eliminate are medical conditions. Certain neurological disorders can cause this behavior. Have your daughter checked out by your physician.
As a side note, not matter what happens do not kick your child out of the house. You are way better off knowing that at least there is a safe place for her to sleep, and can be reasonably confident that she isn't doing anything you don't want her too. ( like drugs, drinking, or worse )
Bottom line: She is the daughter, youryou're the parent. Don't quit on her.