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Dec 26, 2016 at 17:53 comment added AnoE Yes, of course, @mattdm. Read the "you" as plural, and of course it is a very theoretical point. As in the first paragraph, the last one is there to define the range of what could happen, more to make sure the OP sees that it does not make much sense to ask what will happen, but to work it out on his own (with the knowledge he has about himself, his wife and so on).
Dec 26, 2016 at 17:47 comment added mattdm "If you decide that the child is the business of your wife, then nothing much needs to change." .... weeelllllll, that could be true if your wife also agrees and if she also continues to agree after the baby is here and if you consider a massive realignment of your wife's entire life to be not much of a change, then, sure. If that's not all true but you go in with that "decision", you are in for a shock!
Dec 26, 2016 at 17:06 comment added peyre These are very good points. One of the stereotypes out there is a woman getting pregnant in an attempt to hold onto a guy, but the reality is that that would be more likely to break up a couple. Children add stress to their parents' relationship; they amplify whatever differences/disagreements you already have, so if you don't have a very solid bond to begin with, they can cause your relationship to fail. That's part of why there are so many divorced parents out there.
Dec 24, 2016 at 20:43 history answered AnoE CC BY-SA 3.0