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Nov 11, 2016 at 22:45 comment added Michael Borgwardt @kubanczyk: I'm not sure I can say much on the how, it depends on the girl's responses and what exactly she's afraid of. The key is probably convincing her that her feelings, opinions and decisions are being taken seriously - nothing makes a teenager more furious and obstinate than not being taken seriously.
Nov 11, 2016 at 21:35 comment added kubanczyk Good approach! That struck me too: in one paragraph "she gets evasive" and on the next "one of us needs to quit a job, we need to sell a house". Seems like a lot of drama, but lack of information from the source. Although @MichaelBorgwardt the answer would be even nicer if you'd expand a bit the how to part. The desired end result is spelled out completely.
Nov 9, 2016 at 8:57 comment added Michael Borgwardt @jwg: My "assumptions" consist on going by the details in the question. And as I see it, I am adressing the core of the problem that most others are ignoring.
Nov 8, 2016 at 23:49 comment added jwg This isn't a particularly helpful answer. It is somewhat judgy and seems to make unwarranted assumptions about what has transpired when the parents have tried to deal with this. As a parent, you might be proud of your telling off skills, but you don't need to practise them on the OP.
Nov 8, 2016 at 16:23 history answered Michael Borgwardt CC BY-SA 3.0