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Feb
13
comment What if my kids don't want me to speak my native language?
Your first paragraph is true for young children: pre-pre-teens, if you will. When they get older, though, which language they use is a matter of choice, and worse, peer pressure: they will choose to speak German because that's what all their friends speak, and they don't want to be different. Which is where your 100% correct second paragraph comes in: if you can arrange it so that peer pressure gets them to speak Danish, you will have won your battle.
Feb
8
answered What if my kids don't want me to speak my native language?
Feb
4
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Jul
7
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Jul
7
comment What are some strategies for raising a bilingual child?
Note to editors: if you want to suggest something so entirely different than my answer, please write your own answer.
Jul
7
revised What are some strategies for raising a bilingual child?
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May
27
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May
2
comment What are the warning signs for Dyslexia?
I'm not dyslexic (far from it, in fact), but "left" and "right" continue to be random words to me, with no clear association between them and the concepts of left and right. My sister is the same way. So there's probably an education component to this skill, same as any other. In other words, don't expect a 5-year-old to know left and right if you haven't taught him left and right.
Apr
11
comment How to tell my son (10yo), somebody he knows as a man, is actually a woman?
I'll note that as recently as 60 years ago, being left-handed was not considered acceptable, and children who exhibited left-handed tendencies would be forced to use their right hands, and would be punished if they used their left. Most such children learned to adapt, and became semi-ambidextrous: they'd write with their right hands, but in things that the teacher never saw (holding a hammer, for example) they would revert to their natural left-handed state.
Feb
29
comment Reading in second language for a bilingual kid - how to approach a phonetic language vs. English phonics?
Too late now, but I would've suggested doing it in the other order: teach her to read in Czech first, then send her off to kindergarten. It's what my sister & I did, except with Hungarian. Being able to read things phonetically was an immense help when trying to learn English spelling. (But it did lead to an interesting episode where I read a passage written in English as if it were in Hungarian... the kindergarten teacher was a bit, um, confused.)
Feb
29
comment Do I really need to wake my newborn to feed him?
Btw, congrats on the new arrival!
Feb
23
comment How to soothe a 4 1/2 month old during our night time sleep routine?
You do not let a four-month-old cry it out!
Feb
23
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Feb
21
comment Recommendations on helping my left-handed preschooler when my husband and I are right-handed
I'm right-handed, but when the carpal tunnel is acting up, I have no problem switching my mouse to my left hand. I really wouldn't worry about that part.
Feb
16
comment What aspects should we consider when choosing a name for our child?
Bravo for not giving your twins alliterative or rhyming names! Twins end up sharing almost everything, it's nice to have at least your initials to yourself.
Feb
10
comment What should I do when my toddler climbs out of her crib at night to play?
Isn't climbing out of the crib the traditional indicator for "it's time to switch to a bed"? Of course, that would hardly help with the whole getting out of bed in the middle of the night thing...
Jan
26
comment At what age or developmental milestones is it safe to leave children unattended?
I loved being a "latch key kid". Just saying.
Jan
23
revised Infant and noise from fireworks
"defining" might be what the spelling checker suggested, but it's entirely the wrong word
Jan
23
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Jan
23
comment How can we improve a trilingual toddler's basic language development?
@deworde, it was downvoted not because it says anything bad, but because it fails to address the question asked.