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Coder, algorithm designer, father of two, pizza fanatic, and secret musician.


Apr
20
answered What is a positive way to handle a boy who acts like a girl?
Apr
19
comment Everything my son draws is abstract. Is this a problem?
I think its reasonable to associate both with fine motor skills, but I would agree that there is no direct correlation between the two. I can draw quite well but my handwriting is atrocious.
Apr
18
answered Everything my son draws is abstract. Is this a problem?
Apr
16
comment Can a school prevent a child from walking home?
The -1 is for fear mongering. It's hard to get precise statistics on this for more recent years, but in 2002, there were 115 'stereotypical' kidnappings (kidnappings by a stranger with intend to harm or permanently hold the child) in the US. The odds of a child being kidnapped are quite literally 1 in a million. A child is about 30 times more likely to drown.
Apr
15
comment How long is breastfeeding effective and worthwhile?
@Javid Jamae: Our closest relatives, Chimpanzees-Gestation 232 days, weaning 4-5 years. White tailed deer--Gestation 28 weeks, weaning 5 weeks. Lions are in your hypothesized space (110 days/120-150 days) but there isn't any particular reason to consider Chimps, Deer, Harbor Seals, and Grizzlies as outliers and Elephants, Wolves, and Lions as normative. I think that if you plot a few dozen mammal species, you'll see a continuum from Harbor Seals to Chimpanzees. If you want to know the optimum nursing time for human children, you'll need to look at the literature for humans.
Apr
15
comment How long is breastfeeding effective and worthwhile?
@Javid: The gestation period for a Harbor Seal is 10.5 months, and the nursing period is 4 weeks. Human children cannot survive on anything but a specialized diet of milk or an equivalent at 4 weeks. Elephants gestate for 22 months and nurse for 5 years. Wolves gestate for about 65 days and nurse for about 10 weeks. Grizzly bears gestate for between 180 and 250 days (thats a fairly wide range) and nurse for between 2 and 3 years... depending on conditions. So really, there isn't a pattern or a relationship between gestation time and nursing period for mammals of the kind you hypothesize.
Apr
15
comment How long is breastfeeding effective and worthwhile?
@Javid Jamae: Wolf cubs are born blind and essentially helpless, but Elephant calves can walk almost immediately. Human children are born completely helpless and they develop more slowly than many other mammals. Lifespans, social structures, diet, environment, and developmental rates are totally different for different species, and all of these things affect the nursing period. Maybe I'm missing something, but, I just don't see how it is meaningful to compare the duration of nursing between Humans and Harbor Seals.
Apr
13
comment When is physical punishment appropriate?
Another drive by down vote. Seriously, how hard is it to leave a comment?
Apr
13
answered How do you tell your child they are terrible at something?
Apr
10
answered How do you know if you're ready to be a parent?
Apr
7
comment When is physical punishment appropriate?
I'd like to know why the second down vote! Look guys, @cabbey asked for more cites and got 7, so if you've got an issue let me know and I'll see if I can address it.
Apr
7
comment What is a positive way to handle a boy who acts like a girl?
My son went through a similar phase as well, when he wanted to be a princess, etc. Pink is still one of his favorite colors, but he's moved on from the princess bit. I think some of that was just becoming more aware of the differences between boys and girls... when his little sister started potty training, for example, he realized he could pee standing up and she couldn't!
Apr
7
comment Which breeds of dog are safe to have around a toddler?
Downvoters, I would appreciate some feedback.
Apr
6
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Apr
6
comment When is physical punishment appropriate?
@cabbey- I think you were overly optimistic about the perceived value of strong references among parenting.stackexchange users.
Apr
5
comment When is physical punishment appropriate?
One thing you should consider is confirmation bias. When we believe something to be true, we tend to notice the confirming evidence more than the disconfirming evidence. In this case, that might equate to noting disrespectful behavior from children if you know they are not spanked, and failing to note it in children who are. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias
Apr
5
comment When is physical punishment appropriate?
I'd like to know who downvoted this answer, and why.
Apr
5
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Apr
5
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Apr
5
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