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location Burnaby, Canada
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I have spent the past 8 years working at a small ISP, where I manage E-mail, DNS, Web, and Voip servers for a couple thousand clients.


Jun
3
awarded  Notable Question
Apr
3
comment How can I get my 12-year old physically active or into sports when he's never been?
+1 because as a dyed-in-the-wool geek, I have always been more interested in "practical" kinds of exercise than I have been in dying of boredom doing repetitive exercises in a gym. I liked cross-country skiing as a kid, rowing was somewhat practical, but today the thing I do the most is cycling. For a long time, the way I got around was on a bike. Now, I bike the 25km into work as often as I can. Because I can. :)
Apr
1
comment How do I convince a stubborn 8 year old that the parents are supposed to be in charge?
Hi, I can see that you're new here. And also not a parent. You give no useful examples of techniques to accomplish the goal you set. Nor do you remember the techniques your parents used. Probably because you had no idea what the theory was behind their techniques. Because you provided no useful advice, only moralizing, I've downvoted you.
Oct
22
awarded  Yearling
Jun
28
comment What is a positive way to handle a boy who acts like a girl?
Sorry, boys who act like girls (especially in our culture, which reallyreallyreally discourages it, meaning that there are lots of incentives not to act this way, and thus demonstrates a strong willingness to continue this behaviour, as opposed to a passing fancy) in every way is pretty much the definition of gender dysphoria. That, and not being happy with being the gender you are. Again, only time will tell. The child is only 3.
Jun
26
answered Should a 7 day old be prevented from raising her head on her own?
Jun
26
comment What is a positive way to handle a boy who acts like a girl?
No. Google George Rekers and his failed methods on the subject of "sissy boys". Usually they included a boatload of parental abuse too. Anderson Cooper did a story on him too.
Jun
26
answered What is a positive way to handle a boy who acts like a girl?
Jun
26
comment How do parents have sex when there's a toddler in the house?
Lots of experience with this. Upvoted.
Jun
26
comment Doing good things in the wrong way
Oh, my, is this what my future looks like? So, you're offering advice based on experience then? Lots of parents-to-be do that. And then they find out what it's really like, and stop pretending they know anything at all. Downvoted.
Jun
11
awarded  Nice Question
May
9
answered My 8 year old son won't fall asleep
May
9
comment My son Is 5 years Old and sexually active
This isn't sexuality. This is abuse. Whether he's acting out the ways he's been abused or not, he's now raping other kids. Sex involves consent. Rape involves force.
May
9
comment How can I prep my child for an IQ test?
I want to ask: who's the overachiever? Mom, or the child? One of my friends has an IQ of 190, but hasn't really had either the motivation or the interest to make much of anything of her life, much to the consternation of her parents. That said, greatness doesn't come from doing well in school. It comes from wanting to go out and change the world, regardless of your grades.
Jan
4
awarded  Popular Question
May
17
awarded  Yearling
Sep
19
asked The cars of hanoi. Or: two parents, two children, one car
Jun
14
answered When should you start brushing your child's teeth?
Jun
14
awarded  Editor
Jun
14
revised When should we allow children to experience spices in food?
corrected grammatical errors for readability