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We had many hours of training to be foster parents for a year, and were reimbursed our expenses by the county, so I jokingly say we were professional parents. We have witnessed the effects of very bad parenting first hand, and learned many different ways to reverse those effects, often with professional guidance.

We've parented a wide gamut of children. Some of our foster children were of a different ethnicity than us. Our oldest daughter has cerebral palsy, we adopted our son, and our youngest was a surprise baby after thinking we couldn't have children without fertility treatments.

After she was born our plate was too full to continue fostering, but we are grateful for the experience, and I hope to be able to pass on some of what we have learned on this site. In a few years when we have teens I expect you all to return the favor.

We recently started homeschooling our children, which should be a source of interesting questions.


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revised Improving verbal learning
Fix terminology based on further research. Auditory != verbal
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comment For a long flight, would freezing breast milk simplify transporting it?
I apologize for the US-centric answer, as I just noticed you're located in Singapore. However, I believe such standards are internationally coordinated to a certain degree, as planes from one country need to meet certain standards if they expect to be allowed to land in another country.
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answered For a long flight, would freezing breast milk simplify transporting it?
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comment Effect of homeschool on college chances?
That's just it. They care about work as much as, if not more than, knowledge. People without a good GPA must prove they've worked significantly in other areas. I'm a very self-directed learner, which is why I mostly hated college, but I still got good grades because I worked hard. Convince them you can get good grades even when you aren't intrinsically motivated by the subject and the classroom format. There are other ways, but the easiest way is to get good grades in high school or community college. High SAT scores will only offset perhaps one GPA point.
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comment How to handle disclosing a parent's suicide to friends and their parents
If the cat's already out of the bag, that changes things, but I still think the general principle applies to when your kids are ready to confirm or deny the rumor and go into more detail.
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