How long should a feeding be attempted? A little different for us...we were the ones feeding and the nurses would stop us. But it makes sense to limit because it does affect the next feeding.
What are some good places to find trustworthy babysitters? @AdamTuttle: forgot to mention that we were searching for a full-time nanny, for long term (+1year), so that's a bit different than baby sitter for the occasional night out.