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Oct
4
comment Son 22 asks me how to deal with a friend with benefits, so that she does not get hurt
Tell him to check out David D'Angelo he will have plenty of great valuable advise. Careful though his stuff works well, landed my friend with benefits into being my wife with children of 8yrs, lmao.
Jul
1
comment 5 yr old son behaving sexually
I have 2 boys, and they loved running around naked, they are 10 and 11 and I still have to fight with them half the time to put some cloths on. They displayed sexual behavior when they were around 5 yrs old but it has for the most part subsided. I would say most of what you have described is normal but the mounting part would raise concern for me. I would recommend letting his pediatrician know and see what they recommend. It could just be curiosity, but how would he know hes supposed to do what he was trying to do? I agree with filing a report if abuse is discovered.
Jun
24
comment Should I stop my mother in law visiting when she doesn't respect me as the father figure?
Our answer was to send ours away. Though this is more on my wife and her parents. They have caused us great hardship by undermining us and making us walk on egg shells with disipline. September 1st they are moving 400 miles away... counting the days..
Jun
13
comment How can I safely keep a pacifier in an infant's mouth?
Duct Tape... ok really, we just bought the wipes meant for cleaning it. We had the leash for them that attached to the cloths but she would just take it off :/
Jun
10
comment How can I help my son develop a social life? How can I prevent him becoming socially isolated?
My father used to come down on me really hard when I was younger because of the computer. He refused to see any little applications I made and always told me I was rotting my brain away. It took 10+ years but he finally sees the fruits of my labor and couldn't be more proud. I feel the media over exaggerates the effects of the "all mighty screens" there is a lot to learn and experience that can help you grow in all areas of life. Good luck, software development has a bright future with great income and many non-standard perks over normal jobs :)
Jun
10
comment How can I deal with my unreasonable 8 year old with ADHD?
Our family is also struggling with a child that has severe ADHD. We have jumped medication to medication, we have dealt with the ticks they have created including him eating his nails gone. He has become a chronic liar which he did not pickup from us. I love him, but he makes life so difficult for our whole family. We have done therapy, which seems to make him happy though not sure how much it has helped. Stay away from food with red and yellow dyes in them. Good luck, and you are not alone.
Apr
8
comment Restarting baby-led weaning after an actual choking
I feel for you, our baby started nearly choking on watermelon and I was traumatized for a while myself. Out baby also shoved everything as much as she can in her mouth. We actually stuck with level 3 baby food which has minor chunks and stay away with anything that has solid meat chunks as she is 18mo and still has a hard time eating it even with teeth. I would stick to feeding them myself with a spoon unless it was the little snacks that disolve easy.
Apr
8
comment I've taken all of my 13 year old daughter's possessions, and she's still disrespectful
I am not looking forward to these days with the daughter :( my sons are 9 and 11 and they are already starting to get crazy and like you.. I have taken everything away in attempts to not whoop them but it seems the time is coming.. good luck
Dec
27
comment 16mo still not walking, I think it's my fault?
Yeah, I feel I am the enabler :/ I am ALWAYS there to catch her when she falls. If they were bottom falls I don't mind but she has a habit of throwing her self backwards(my fault as well) and I don't want her getting brain damage from smashing her head. My sisters baby bumped her head and got brain swelling and has a serious condition now so I feel a little paranoid. But I agree with what you are saying, I really wish I had carpet instead of hard floors I would let her fall all day long.
Jul
31
comment 11mo baby is shaking arms and legs when excited
Thank you, seizures were kinda on my mind though I thought maybe it was really minor versions. Thanks for the reassurance all is well, it definitely isn't as uncontrollable as a seizure.
Jul
31
comment 11mo baby is shaking arms and legs when excited
Comforting.. yeah i probably would be freaking out if she hit 16mo and was still doing it. Thank you for the heads up, its quite adorable I just didn't want it to be something bad while I'm melting over her lol.
Jan
17
comment What is a reasonable amount of time to wait before family visits your new baby?
We let them visit while the baby was still in the NICU. But we were picky on who could hold her. Lots of hand sanitizer! By many bottles and have them always around for guests.
Jan
17
comment Why does my baby grind her face into my shoulder?
My baby is 4mo and just started doing this. She does it when she is tired. But being younger probably looking for a nipple. I miss my baby being litle :( enjoy it while she is it doesn't last long.
Nov
9
comment What are good things to look for in formulas for newborns who need to supplement?
I'm glad :) I think the massaging and working with him will probably be the best course of action in the end. I know it sounds weird.. but I think its kinda fun to help my baby poop... she makes funny faces and gets all red.. lol.
Nov
8
comment How quickly do I need to change my newborn with a dirty diaper?
LOL! omg I'm missing my baby now! Ours has just started making the "attempt to speak noises" waaa, maa, and stuff like that.. I'm going to be sad when I cannot smother her with kisses any more lol.
Nov
8
comment How quickly do I need to change my newborn with a dirty diaper?
Yeah she doesn't fuss if it's her first round usually.. but if she has a 2nd round of pee in it (I am assuming by the amount) then she gets restless and wiggles a lot and makes noises of distress. We have lucked out I believe, she doesn't really cry and she is pretty easy to read. We can pretty much tell when she is hungry, gassy/upset tummy, peed, or wants her pacifier. Omg.. I love her so much.. I wish I was at home right now holding her instead of being at work :/
Nov
8
comment How much should I interact with my newborn?
Nice answer, I can't get enough of my baby. I am always kissing her and massaging her hands and feet. It's amazing how I can't seem to make time for anything else but man.. I can get lost for hours just loving on my baby :)
Nov
8
comment How quickly do I need to change my newborn with a dirty diaper?
Yeah, Pretty much when I can feel that shes peed(fluffy diaper), right after I feed her, or before I feed her if her diaper is full, when she is fussy(she lets us know when shes ready to be changed), and when she is pooped immediately.
Nov
7
comment Resources for helping children understand that TV/Films aren't necessarily “real”
@Torben, I have 3 :) 9yr, 8yr, and 2mo. Hands are full, I didn't say I get to do it all the time :P Just when I can and they are available I do it. I like doing it with the kids especially when it is a movie that seems really realistic and their lines of whats real may be blurred.
Nov
1
comment Getting a good diagnosis for possible mental issues?
Nice these blogs seem great I will keep an eye on them thank you.