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comment When should I stop swaddling my baby?
And as far as suffocation vs SIDS, the latter has become an umbrella term for any unknown cause of death while sleeping (no matter how probable any specific cause, such as accidental smothering/suffocation). It remains that swaddling, in addition to reducing a baby's habitual muscle twitches that can wake them, also helps prevent the child rolling over onto their stomach before they have the ability to control such actions. Once a baby can roll over in a controlled manner, swaddling is no longer necessary, but as the answer states it can still be desirable.
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comment When should I stop swaddling my baby?
There are sleep-sacks that don't have the swaddle, and even for ones that do, you can do an "arms-out" swaddle that keeps the material firmly against them to prevent it shifting before they're coordinated enough to pull it away from their face. It's recommended not to use a loose blanket for the first year, or at least until the child is pulling up to a stand (generally indicating the coordination to extricate themselves from a loose tangle of blanket).
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comment Non-alcoholic treatment, medicines, or remedies for infant colic
Therefore, young children are only minimally self-aware and dominated by instinct, until about three or four months when they start to gain conscious control over their body and also start to learn cause-and-effect, leading to behaviors like smiling. They don't "want" to be able to move freely, and they don't "believe" that being shushed when they cry is a let-down, no matter what Ms Sunbury thinks. They "want" what they need; eat, sleep, poop, and be comforted. For the first six months or so, your entire life as a parent more or less revolves around enabling these four things.
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comment Non-alcoholic treatment, medicines, or remedies for infant colic
A fair critique. I think the primary point missed in this criticism is that a baby is not a tiny adult. The fundamental premise of Dr Karp's work is the thesis that, compared to most other mammals, babies are born too early in terms of mental and neurological development, but if they cooked any longer they'd grow too big physically to fit through the birth canal (it's already a tight fit that usually, not sometimes but usually, requires assistance, and a huge risk to the life of both baby and mother).
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comment Our infant was sleeping through the night, but at 5 months old started waking up in the middle of the night; is this from starting to dream?
My 17mo seems, from time to time, to have nightmares; she'll wake up screaming and insistently crying, and it takes a while holding her to calm her back down. Not sure what could scare her that badly at that age; a sensation of falling, maybe, or thinking Mommy and Daddy aren't around. Anyway, it can starte even earlier than 2
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comment 14 yr old lesbian/bi daughter
@Bobo - Until she isn't. Trust but verify; ask around, to teachers, parents, other friends; who does she spend time with, anything seem out of the ordinary. However, and the OP probably knows this better than anyone else on the thread, NEVER, EVER say anything that might "out" anyone before they're ready to make that choice themselves. Despite a lot of people coming to an understanding about homosexuality, children still get kicked out of their homes for being gay, and many children walk a very fine line in public that one careless word can split wide open, with devastating consequences.
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comment Why do humans require assistance in childbirth so frequently?
That's the biggest thing; we evolved (or were created as you prefer) to be able to outthink all of God's other creatures, most of which are heavier, faster, and/or better armed than we are. But, that bigger brain means a bigger head, meaning more difficulty getting out of the birth canal, and it also means that human babies are among the most helpless for the longest of the entire animal kingdom, while their primary advantage - their brain - develops. Most other animals are mobile within weeks, if not days or even hours, while a human baby doesn't even roll over on its own for months.