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bio website hochmanfamily.com
location Stamford, CT
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I am a teacher of Navi to 6th and 7th graders as well as a technology teacher to grades k-3 in a Jewish Day School in Stamford, CT. I am married and have four wonderful children who keep me on my toes.


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answered Should we use special detergent/washing powder for the laundry of baby clothes? (UK)
Jan
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comment Fostering a relationship with a relative your child doesn't like
+1 I agree with you, however, don't you think being polite and socially appropriate is an important thing to teach. As well, how do you get the relative to accept the child's boundaries, set up by the child? You have no control of the relative's reactions. And further more, in this case the relative does not respond appropriately but rather becomes a child and reacts with meanness toward the child.
Jan
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revised Fostering a relationship with a relative your child doesn't like
added a question and organized the questions
Jan
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comment Fostering a relationship with a relative your child doesn't like
@DA01 I don't particularly like this relative either, however children don't necessarily keep their feelings to them selves out of respect for their elder. I suppose I will add to the question that this may be a solution, however I would love to know how to teach this.
Jan
26
comment Fostering a relationship with a relative your child doesn't like
@JonathanDeCarlo she is 8years old
Jan
26
comment At what age or developmental milestones is it safe to leave children unattended?
I started a chat room about this as I think that is what this is turning into, however, I have been unable to post a question and I don't have time to deal with this now, but will try in the morning to get it up and working. I am not sure how they work on this site, but I am trying it out.
Jan
26
answered What to do when parents disagree regarding their parenting
Jan
26
comment Vaccine reactions
What qualifies as severe?
Jan
25
comment At what age or developmental milestones is it safe to leave children unattended?
I agree it does have to do with other things other than age such as maturity, knowing what to do in a given situation, being able to entertain herself. However age also has something to do with it, just because she is mature doesn't mean she isn't 7 and therefore does 7 year old behaviors that are NOT conducive to staying home alone, even for a short time.
Jan
25
comment How to help a child understand why she'll move back to her old school again?
It has to do with her learning style, but I am not sure a 4.5 year old can understand that.
Jan
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comment At what age or developmental milestones is it safe to leave children unattended?
@afrazier sounds like you will only be doing it to placate her, at age 7 it is not a choice, it is a necessity that she participates in grocery shopping if you need to go because she is a child.
Jan
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comment At what age or developmental milestones is it safe to leave children unattended?
@afrazier Don't you think there is a middle ground between 7 and 15? 7 is still very young for alot of things they may seem mature enough for. I have an 8 year old daughter who has been older than her age from birth and probably could be safe searching youtube or staying home alone but that doesn't mean she needs to do it.
Jan
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awarded  Enlightened
Jan
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awarded  Nice Answer
Jan
25
comment Is AnimalJam a good and safe place for kids online and does it merit paying for the membership?
I would broaden this question to not be specific to one website, but how to evaluate websites in general. Below I answered both questions.
Jan
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comment Is AnimalJam a good and safe place for kids online and does it merit paying for the membership?
you don't have to pay for membership and probably shouldn't bother
Jan
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revised Is AnimalJam a good and safe place for kids online and does it merit paying for the membership?
added a specific answer
Jan
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asked How to help a child understand why she'll move back to her old school again?
Jan
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comment How can I help my 6-year old Cousin eat healthier?
I am a little bit confused. Are you a niece or the aunt? In other words, are you a peer of this child or a grown up?
Jan
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comment At what age or developmental milestones is it safe to leave children unattended?
Very true (both my husband and I work full time) however research should be done either into after school activities or a friend that can help out. I sometimes have an 8th grade student stay with my kids briefly and then I help her with her homework instead of paying her.