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answered Step Parent - To be concerned or not to be
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answered Why does my 16-year-old hate me?
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comment How should I inform parents if their children are bothering me?
@JimW Yes, that's less direct - it's asking if they'd mind before asking if they would actually act. Of course, if they don't mind they'd be expected to act, so a lot of people use it the same way, but it is slightly softer, being more indirect. If that feels comfortable, use that.
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comment How should I inform parents if their children are bothering me?
You were annoyed being seated right behind the child. I'm curious whether you would have still been annoyed if you chose a seat much further away from her. Given that the bus is nearly 40 feet long, my expectation is that re-seating yourself may be an easier option for both you and the other passengers.
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comment How should I inform parents if their children are bothering me?
I like this because I prefer treating children as equals. On the other hand many youth see adults as authorities of one form or another, and will not stand up for their own rights in the face of even a very polite request ( see, for example, travel.stackexchange.com/questions/48775/… ) so I'm a bit torn as to whether this is a good idea when the child is traveling with their parents. As a retail worker, you were in a position of some authority. That is a different relationship than a fellow passenger.
Jun
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comment How should I inform parents if their children are bothering me?
I like this answer because it provides a permanent fix for a problem they will encounter throughout their life. Otherwise they will have to ask for quiet from people around them whenever they encounter it.
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comment How should I inform parents if their children are bothering me?
@Joe Yes, the OP never specifies whose acceptance they are seeking. Do they want to know whether society finds it acceptable? The parent they are asking? The bus company? Legally? It may be obvious to us that it's legal and there are no significant repercussions, but on the other hand I don't want to give them the impression that everyone finds it acceptable and no one will find offense with it.
Jun
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comment How should I inform parents if their children are bothering me?
" If you're simply annoyed about "normal" children's behavior, that's not really appropriate to bring up" reminds me of the recent question travel.stackexchange.com/questions/48775/… where a youth is asked to give up their rights to an adult merely because many adults believe they have more rights to something than a youth does. You can ask a cell phone talker to get off the phone when sharing a bus with them, but they certainly don't have to. I agree with the above statement - it's not appropriate, but it can be done.
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answered How should I inform parents if their children are bothering me?
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answered I think my 11 month old is afraid of his dad
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comment My 4-year-old refers to himself as me
I enjoy this stage with my kids. It provides a lot of opportunities to have fun, and a number of teachable moments.
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comment How do I make my son wear his glasses?
@DanBeale you're right, edited.
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comment How do I make my son wear his glasses?
Also: theglobeandmail.com/life/health-and-fitness/ask-a-health-expert/…
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answered How do I make my son wear his glasses?
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comment Should I tell my 10-year old son, how screwed-up Cinderella is?
So many parenting questions on this site boil down to parents asking if the appropriate response to a child saying "I like X" is "Well sit down and let me tell you why X is terrible!" (spoiler: the answer is almost always no)