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I'm a husband, father, and mechanical engineer at Hewlett-Packard. I support:

  • Breast feeding
  • Cloth diapering
  • Cosleeping
  • Vaccination
  • Home/charter/private schooling
  • Non-physical dicipline

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answered Is it okay to let a baby cry at bedtime?
Sep
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revised When and how is circumcision done?
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comment When do kids usually stop believing in Santa Claus?
I'm not personally familiar with any religions that claim their deity only exists if you believe. I'm sure some must exist, but if you look at the largest 5-6, which give you about 75-80% of people, that belief is absent to my knowledge.
Sep
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answered How can I get my infant to fall asleep?
Sep
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comment Are netbooks appropriate for school age children?
@nGinius I never said I agree with this program; in fact I think such bribes are the sort of things parents should do. I simply disagree with rewarding poor performance.
Sep
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accepted As an atheist, how should I explain theism to my children?
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comment As an atheist, how should I explain theism to my children?
I'm choosing this as my answer because it addresses all of my concerns. Your point about the literary treatment of these texts was eye opening and something I hadn't thought of before, as I do already dismiss them.
Sep
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comment As an atheist, how should I explain theism to my children?
The comments aren't really appropriate for a theological discussion. If you wish to talk about it, contact me via gmail. If you can't see it on my profile, it's my first initial, "R", followed by my full name as it appears on this site "@gmail.com". My short answer to your question is that the universe that we see around us is incompatible with the existence of a god. Where I define god as a super-human, super-natural creator that exists outside the laws of our universe.
Sep
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comment As an atheist, how should I explain theism to my children?
I'm an objectivist. I'm pro-science and pro-love, but interpret love very differently than most. I see it as profoundly selfish and selfishness as the highest virtue. If you're interested in more detail, rather than that shallow description, check out aynrand.org/site/PageServer?pagename=objectivism_intro for a more formal statement of the basic positions.
Sep
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comment As an atheist, how should I explain theism to my children?
While this is a good idea in general and I'll +1 it, unfortunately my wife's and my philosophy is incompatible with the last three items; even to the point that those philosophies are considered bad. But we're unusual and your answer will be useful for most people.
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comment As an atheist, how should I explain theism to my children?
I think he meant to treat them the same in that you shouldn't show preferential treatment to one over another, not saying they are the same.
Sep
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comment Are netbooks appropriate for school age children?
-1 I don't think that there's anything wrong with rewarding hard work and success. Giving it only to children who aren't doing as well simply removes the incentive to work harder. Rewarding failure and punishing success is why many school systems let smart children stagnate.
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asked As an atheist, how should I explain theism to my children?
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comment When do kids usually stop believing in Santa Claus?
I really have to disagree with you in the strongest possible terms. The point of parenting is to raise children that can cope with and deal with reality. Something's existence is not conditional on anyone's belief and instilling that in a child is setting them up for disappointment and delusion.
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comment How do you teach a child religious views?
@Marc Gravell, not to nitpick, but as a non-humanist atheist, I'd point out that many secular philosophies can be a boon, not only humanism.