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Lapsed Catholic. Luddite Geek. Shy Chatterbox. A mass of contradictions wrapped in an open enigma.


Mar
26
comment Punishment for stealing?
+1: Keep achievements and punishments separate. From where you are, I'd apologise for taking back the money, explain you were angry and hand it back, then move on to explaining why you were angry, and then move on to the phases above.
Mar
19
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Mar
19
comment How do we stop our daughter rolling over and waking herself up?
@Banang Suggest we move this to chat before it goes any further, but I watched the effects of constantly waking up on my partner and myself, and one of the needs of the baby is to have at least one primary carer who has had enough sleep to make sensible decisions. I do agree that CIO wasn't our first choice, and we held off for some time because of it, but careful controlled crying definitely worked for us.
Mar
16
revised How to prepare to homeschool for our new baby
Made title a bit more specific to the question being asked
Mar
3
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Feb
22
comment How do you curb “tattletale” behavior in a toddler?
+1: Really great answer
Feb
17
comment How to deal with my son who always wants to have lights on when we go to bed?
When you say keeping the light on spoils your sleep, is there only the one room, or could you set up a sleeping space for either one of the parents or the toddler in the other room?
Feb
13
reviewed Approve suggested edit on What can help prepare a 15 month old for the birth of a sibling?
Jan
31
comment Why is my one month old kicking, grunting and eventually crying when I hold her?
Hi Michael, changed the title slightly to make it attract people who can answer. Please rollback/re-edit if I've taken a liberty
Jan
31
revised Why is my one month old kicking, grunting and eventually crying when I hold her?
edited title
Jan
24
comment How can I tell parents of a 1-year-old that they're doing it wrong?
+1 for show, don't tell.
Jan
15
comment Why does my baby grind her face into my shoulder?
+1 for " As with most baby issues that come up, my question is what the hell is she trying to tell us?"
Jan
13
comment Is Television appropriate for meal times?
+1 for the exception criteria. I can't think of anything that made me bolt my food faster and pay less attention to the meal than wanting to get back to something. By contrast, my little sister and I used to bond over pizza and TV, just talking over the show. But in general, this advice is correct. It's all in the context.
Jan
11
comment Dad-to-be needs help finding a changing table
+1: We also have two of these pads. Usable anywhere where a surface exists, wipe clean, and once our daughter developed into the wriggliest thing ever to refuse to sit still and be changed, we could easily transfer changing to the floor.
Jan
1
revised What would be a effective way to explain pornography?
fixing the title
Dec
31
comment How do we stop our daughter rolling over and waking herself up?
Just started doing this at 7 months. Violent babyrages (we've got early sep anx issues), but it does seem to be working. Wouldn't recommend doing it before they're properly mobile though, as what makes it bearable is that she can clearly move into a more comfortable position. Certainly it's helping the mother to sleep.
Dec
21
reviewed Approve suggested edit on How early should I start thinking about cloth diapers?
Dec
20
reviewed Leave Open How do I tell my parents that my wife and I are pregnant?
Dec
19
comment Are cloth diapers really more environmentally minded than disposables?
@mmr Bank-balance vs Environmental friendliness
Dec
17
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