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I am no longer a parent; my son is happy and well but I can't see him until I get some stuff sorted out.

Parenting Stack Exchange is unbearably sad for me now.

Thanks for the help, and I hope that I was at least some use here.

I welcome friendly chats over email. dan dot bealecocks at googlemail dot com yes that's my real name.


Aug
10
comment Where can I find good research on long term health impact of different types/brands of infant formula (in the US)?
Any particular country? In the UK the law is pretty strict and they're all fairly similar.
Aug
10
comment How can I safely keep a pacifier in an infant's mouth?
question asker has a 2 month old baby. soft toys should not be in the cot.
Aug
10
comment At what age should I expect my daughter to talk?
+1 for reference and acceptance of variability.
Aug
10
comment At what age should I expect my daughter to talk?
entirely anecdotal, with some potentially harmful info about late talkers.
Aug
10
comment At what age should I expect my daughter to talk?
Try and avoid "yes / no" questions, instead make the child use a word. "do you want a bit of chicken, or some avocado?".
Aug
10
comment At what age should siblings stop sharing their bedroom?
Shelter is a uk charity dealing with housing problems, including homelessness.
Aug
8
comment What home-safety aspects should new parents consider?
I've tried to fit this question to the Stack Exchange style, but it feels a like a bit of a kludge. Answers I'm looking for would include maybe statistics about injury rates, with suggestions to prevent that. Thus, "In $COUNTRY there are approx $CHILDREN admitted to hospital after poisoning, so make sure that your meds are locked away, but also the meds of any grandparents which is a common source of medication poisoning."
Aug
8
comment My son turns 10, what can I do for him that will be special?
I've had a bit of a go! (apologies for mis-spelling Torben in the edit summary.)
Aug
8
comment At what age do kids start sleeping through the night?
Original Poster has my sympathy - my one year old wakes about 4 times a night every night, and is wide awake and ready to get out of bed at 5:00am (which we've just pushed back from 4:00am). mods - delete this if too chatty, thanks.
Aug
7
comment Is crib use (mostly) universal?
"so called SIDS"? I'd minus one if I could for that comment.
Aug
7
comment Is crib use (mostly) universal?
What are you going to do when your son is one? Two? Three?
Aug
6
comment When should I introduce different foods to an infant or toddler?
The no-honey rule has been changed recently. The risk of infant botulism was tiny. Having said that, honey is just sugar, so it's still not a great food for children.
Aug
6
comment What are some good natural remedies for asthma in children?
+1 for last sentence
Aug
6
comment Should we discourage our toddler from taking sippy cups to bed?
Adding a comment here - tooth decay is a major cause for hospital admission for children in the UK. And it is getting worse, not better, according to this report. <telegraph.co.uk/health/healthnews/4699838/…;
Aug
6
comment How can I keep my toddler from scratching himself when he is upset?
An excellent answer; thank you.
Aug
5
comment How do you determine what the age-appropriate foods for a baby are?
I'd be careful about some vitamins for babies older than 6 months. And baby led weaning is fantastic, but (obviously!) be careful about salt.