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Mar
9
answered What to do when a 6-year-old expresses suicidal thoughts?
Mar
2
comment How do I instruct my openly defiant son?
In your example you engage with him when he's naughty but not when he isn't. He is controlling the situation - he can provoke a reaction from you by putting his boots on the back of the seat.
Mar
2
comment How do I instruct my openly defiant son?
"Your son is old enough to understand that current behavior can cause future punishments" -- not really; children learn this when they're in their 20s. I agree with you though, and upvoted this good post.
Mar
1
comment Suggestions to fight bacterial infection
I'm voting to close this question as off-topic because it's incoherent and can't be rescued to a meaningful question.
Feb
23
revised What should I do if my 15 year old son is sexually interested in younger boys?
Changed "child porn" to "images of child sexual abuse"
Feb
18
answered Should I cut my child's dad out of his life?
Feb
18
comment What should we do when our 15 year old wants sex with his 13 year old girlfriend?
"She comes from a broken and quite possibly violent home" -- what did child protection social services tell you when you contacted them?
Feb
18
comment What should we do when our 15 year old wants sex with his 13 year old girlfriend?
@superluminary: the victim would have to be under 13 for this to be counted as "statutory rape" (we don't have this but I take your point). It is a serious criminal offence though.
Feb
18
answered What should we do when our 15 year old wants sex with his 13 year old girlfriend?
Feb
18
comment What should we do when our 15 year old wants sex with his 13 year old girlfriend?
@corsika - please provide some reference for your facts. As far as I can tell they're wrong and English law does not have gendered crimes for sex with a child. Your sentence seems wrong too - an adult having sex with a child risks a 14 year sentence; someone under 18 having sex with a child risks a 5 year sentence.
Feb
18
comment What should we do when our 15 year old wants sex with his 13 year old girlfriend?
English law: cps.gov.uk/news/fact_sheets/sexual_offences
Feb
17
comment 3.5yr old pre-schooler cannot deal with frustration
Thanks for this. I was going to add something similar. You can use your smartphone timer app and ask the child "How much longer do you want? 3 minutes or 5 minutes?" and then set the timer. Don't set the timer too long - children do not have a good working understanding for time.
Feb
14
comment Is early education for 2-3 year olds worth it?
i) trained adults might spot problems that you miss and thus you get early intervention (for example, parents usually don't have their children's eyes tested) ii) good schools have a lot of competition so you want to look early and learn what they want in applicants. I think a motivated home environment is more important ( if the school is adaquate.)
Feb
12
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Feb
12
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Feb
11
answered Suitable music festival where children can be taken (Big Chill replacement!)
Feb
11
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Feb
10
comment Toddler injured nose while playing
"Now, I don't want to be that "parent" who takes their child to doctor for even small things," -- doctors should be fine with parents who take their child in to see them even for 'small things'. A tiny number of parents are too anxious and will visit the doctor frequently - multiple times a week. Those parents need some better support. Also, in England, "Choose Well" where to go. Don't go to A&E for anything that's not an emergency.Here's one example of a local "Choose Well" campaign. choosewellglos.nhs.uk
Jan
30
comment How can parents help an adult child with OCD?
How much do you and your parents know about OCD? It's really hard for me to offer advice that is not medical advice but, simply: support your brother to get treatment. It is sometimes useful to try different therapists. Support your brother to take medications. There are good reasons why people don't take medications so help him work his way through those. Find a local support group for families and carers of people with OCD.
Jan
20
comment Do I force my son to speak to his semi-absent parent?
@anongoodnurse preventing a child from having contact with a parent - even an abusive parent - violates the rights of the child and the rights of the parent and must be a measure of last resort. Drug addiction is not a suitable reason to prevent contact - although it is a reason to protect the child from harm. Assuming that you can prevent contact just because a parent has an active addiction is likely to cause distress when courts order some form of contact with the father.