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Jun
7
revised My daughter is having sex with guys 10 years older than her; what do I do?
Added quotes and links about child grooming
Jun
7
revised My daughter is having sex with guys 10 years older than her; what do I do?
Added context about seriousness of child grooming
Jun
7
comment My daughter is having sex with guys 10 years older than her; what do I do?
@MGOwen - grooming is real and very dangerous. m.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-cambridgeshire-25659042 m.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-manchester-25450512 etc etc
Jun
6
answered My daughter is having sex with guys 10 years older than her; what do I do?
Jun
6
comment 6 year old has adult tooth very visible, baby tooth still in place
It can stay there forever. Web search for "super numerary deciduous teeth" to see examples of milk teeth staying.
Jun
6
comment 6 year old has adult tooth very visible, baby tooth still in place
I tried to ask for advice about "super-numerary deciduous teeth" (milk teeth that don't fall out causing too many teeth) and that question was closed.
Jun
5
comment How do I convince an elementary schooler to always tuck his shirts/tshirts into his pants?
parenting.stackexchange.com/a/12814/1385
Jun
5
comment How do I convince an elementary schooler to always tuck his shirts/tshirts into his pants?
Put a post near the trousers. Have an image of trousers tucked in with a big tick. Have an image of trousers untucked with a big cross. PS: StackExchange is international and many people have no idea what "elementary school" is. Please will you add actual numbers for ages? 13-15 or under-10 or whatever is much more useful.
Jun
4
comment How should I teach my son to play video games?
No screens before two, and less than two hours per day after that - m.psychologytoday.com/blog/mental-wealth/201310/… i suspect a four year old is not going to enjoy most games until they have the hand eye coordination. For most children this is going to be older than four. I am not sure how much they are going to enjoy the competition. So, age appropriate games, or set your own goals in games.
Jun
4
answered How to help a child overcome fear of heights
Jun
3
comment How long did it take your baby to like daycare?
I agree. It is really hard for the parent! Daycare may let you sneak in a bit early at the end of the day to watch your child playing happily. Seperation anxiety is a sign of a good strong bond with the parent. Good luck.
Jun
3
comment What are the effective durations of punishment at various ages?
Removing a teenager's mobile phone for 30 minutes is more effective than removing it for a day or a week. This is currently taught in Webster Stratton courses.
Jun
2
answered My son wants to bring a present to a birthday party where “no presents” was specified on the invitation
May
28
comment Is this strange behavior for a 5-year-old?
Children learn through talking. The old building is a great opportunity to broaden vocab and to introduce imagination - "old, dusty, ramshackle, tumbledown, derelict"; "who do you think used to love there? What did they do? Where did they go and why?". Coffee is a great opportunity to talk about planning "i have the coffee, what else do I need?" And processes "i put the coffee in here, then what happens?". Children really love talking a lot.
May
26
revised How can I encourage my child to eat “spicier” healthy food?
Do not make unsubstantiated possibly harmful health claims when available evidence shows no clear benefit
May
25
revised How can I encourage my child to eat “spicier” healthy food?
Changed first sentence to correctly reflect this is opinion.
May
24
comment How can I deal with no-socks situation at night?
How old are the children? How cold is cold? Safe temperatures are 16 celcius to 20 celcius. If the room is colder than that you need to increase the temperature of the room to avoid illness. If the room is in that range the children will self regulate their temperature by removing or adding clothes. You could use infant sleeping bags (if they're small enough), or you could learn to tuck blankets around the mattress.
May
23
comment Paternity Leave, How much does the Father need to be home?
If she needs a c-section you're going to have to do a lot of support.
May
23
comment How can I deal with no-socks situation at night?
I have no idea what you mean by "reasonably cold". 16 Celcius to 20 Celcius are safe temperatures for a child's room. They will regulate their temperature by removing clothes are trying to rearrange blankets.
May
23
answered Are there any benefits to taking a bath over taking a shower for a child?