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Jun
29
answered Should I declare my baby when booking a hotel?
Jun
22
comment How to punish “unpunishable” 3y old
Combine this with constant praise for good behaviour. Every time the child does anything give some praise. Also consider that this behaviour is the child telling you they are bored - take them outside for a run or take them inside for some quiet reading activity.
Jun
19
comment Is there any health risk from play-sand that's been left wet in its bags for a week?
When you buy playsNd it will not be dry - it will have some moiusture in the bag. Very dry playsand is hard to play with and you'll probably be adding water to sand when it gets very dry.
Jun
19
answered Is there any health risk from play-sand that's been left wet in its bags for a week?
Jun
17
answered Four year-old likes ripping things
Jun
17
answered How do I get my pre-teen to stop asking to watch a TV show/movie?
Jun
15
comment If I bought a present for a child and gave it to the parents and later they have a birthday party, do I get another gift?
No. A card might be a good idea.
Jun
15
comment What are the steps parents of an introverted teenager can take to help him to socialize with girls?
Question assumes heterosexual teen.
Jun
14
answered Do we have a recourse against an anonymous parent making our child's life harder?
Jun
13
comment Should I really be insisting that my daughter finish eating her meal?
Thanks for links to some sources!
Jun
12
comment How should I handle an 8 year old lawyering and quibbling?
Stop getting involved. Give firm clear instructions. Make sure good behaviour is consistantly praised without fail every single time. There should be a constant flow of "thank you for doing X! It makes it much easier for me" as soon as he does anything. Relentless positivity. Also make sure that there are consequences to not complying with the spirit of an instruction, and make sure those are followed. Was the breakfast a real example? You don't need to police a child's food and drink intake so closely. He'll drink when he's thirsty.
Jun
12
comment Understanding the idea of “fears” as a young child
The scene is scary because the colour palette changes and the music changes. There's some stuff about the characters and jeopardy and so on, but a 3 year old has no idea what "dead" or "killed" mean.
Jun
9
awarded  Nice Answer
Jun
8
comment My daughter is having sex with guys 10 years older than her; what do I do?
Many parents of victims of grooming start being totally unaware of the grooming. They are told that the child has made a choice to work as a child prostitute or that it is just bad parenting or naughty children. Either way, the course of action is the same. Protect the child; call the police and call child protective social services.
Jun
8
comment My daughter is having sex with guys 10 years older than her; what do I do?
@DVK What term?
Jun
7
revised My daughter is having sex with guys 10 years older than her; what do I do?
Added quotes and links about child grooming
Jun
7
revised My daughter is having sex with guys 10 years older than her; what do I do?
Added context about seriousness of child grooming
Jun
7
comment My daughter is having sex with guys 10 years older than her; what do I do?
@MGOwen - grooming is real and very dangerous. m.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-cambridgeshire-25659042 m.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-manchester-25450512 etc etc
Jun
6
answered My daughter is having sex with guys 10 years older than her; what do I do?
Jun
6
comment 6 year old has adult tooth very visible, baby tooth still in place
It can stay there forever. Web search for "super numerary deciduous teeth" to see examples of milk teeth staying.