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Hello, world!

I'm a father of one pre-schooler and one toddler. My stake in this site is to learn from you, and also to contribute as much as I can!

Based on my own childhood and parenthood, my specialties are (among others): twins, languages, and international aspects. For the record, I'm an identical twin and married to a fraternal twin. I speak 4 languages fluently and I've lived in 5 countries (Europe, Japan).

I enjoy using my experience to help others. That is why I am active at even more SE sites in the StackExchange network on topics that interest me.

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Outside of this site, I'm something of a Swiss army knife both professionally and in private, able to juggle a wild variety of things at once. I've worked in every kind of business that uses software. I'm also very good with tools, both IT and mechanic. Whether you need software design or assembling some IKEA furniture, I'm your man for the job. I'm generally soft-spoken but driven by clear principles.

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Dec
13
comment Where should boys aim their urine?
@Jasmine the surface is a nearly flat bowl, so there's about 3 millimeters of water, diameter maybe 10 centimeters. Hit that, and it'll definitely splash...
Dec
12
comment Where should boys aim their urine?
@Jasmine - what prevents the splash too? The shelf certainly doesn't, on the contrary. The higher elevation of the "target surface" means that more of the splashback leaves the bowl. The only way to avoid it is by sitting down.
Dec
9
comment Should I monitor my child's internet usage?
Unfortunately playgrounds can (and sometimes are!) littered with glass shards and used condoms. Still, probably better than g~cx (I've heard of it and I'm not going to look!) but not a lot.
Dec
5
comment Does Tongue-tie really affect talking?
What's "DD"? "Darling daughter"?
Nov
4
comment Where should boys aim their urine?
@ratchetfreak, can confirm. The foam absorbs (most of?) the splashback, so this is valid.
Nov
4
comment Some games and playful ideas for a father to do with his 4 year old daughter?
Welcome! I formatted your post a bit. Please use your Enter key once in a while :-) (formatting guide)
Nov
3
comment Sleep in booster seats
Try turning the C-shaped pillow around? So that there's nothing in the neck. Some pillows don't stay in place like that but some do!
Nov
3
comment 14 yo daughter broke her friendship due to Homosexuality?
Indeed, this question is both clearer and more precise than OP's earlier questions. It's a good one.
Nov
3
comment Dealing with an irresponsible 30 year old brother-in-law
Look beyond the immediate symptoms! If cycling to work is not an option, and he doesn't have reliable access to a car, then he's not equipped to work that job. He needs to look for a job that he can hold down without having to rely on other people (or bother them with).
Oct
30
comment How to inculcate concentration for 5 yr old kid?
in·cul·cate [inˈkəlˌkāt,ˈinkəlˌkāt], verb: teach (someone) an attitude, idea, or habit by persistent instruction.
Oct
25
comment When my 4 yo has to do something he doesn't want to, he completely blocks communication with moans/cries/wails. How can I get him to respond?
@Joe, what other natural consequences are there? E.g. he'll be sent home again because he's not allowed in undressed. And he'll want to be in there? It can be hard to find or realize the natural consequences that would reinforce your goal.
Oct
24
comment Suggestions for a 5 year old girl who has trouble focusing
possible duplicate of In what ways can you help a child develop self-control and delayed or deferred gratification?
Oct
24
comment How to cover base heaters corners
I think this is an excellent solution, and I don't see a heating hazard as long as the corner guard is relatively small. You could probably cut out a useful shape from a pool noodle or similar item you already have that can be partially sacrificed.
Oct
24
comment When my 4 yo has to do something he doesn't want to, he completely blocks communication with moans/cries/wails. How can I get him to respond?
Going to kindergarten in pajamas has happened more than once in my family, too. By the time the kid shows up in the group in pajamas he definitely wants to get dressed, and it's a perfectly safe and simple way of teaching him natural consequences of his decisions.
Oct
19
comment I'm pretty sure I'm bound for the mental asylum
Welcome! Vague posts like yours (no offense!) usually don't get very useful responses here. What's your actual question? - This site works best when we can give one clear answer to one clear question. If you have several questions, post them separately.
Oct
19
comment One room for each son, or one bedroom and one play room?
@Ananyawilliams could you elaborate, please? Submit an answer (not a comment) to explain why you think this.
Oct
17
comment What are these? Received from children's centre in free pack
This question is as puzzling as the one about the dinosaur!
Oct
17
comment My Niece is treated as an Outcast by her own Parents
Of course kids can be aroused, why shouldn't that be possible? The kids are exploring - that's a very natural thing in some cultures but even there it can exasperate the parents because they see it with adult eyes. Please see this relevant question and its answers!
Oct
8
comment Help! My 7 year old won't go to bed early, or get up early
I can't tell whether you're serious or this is tongue-in-cheek. But the bright light of a TV (specifically the blue component) isn't conducive to sleep.
Oct
8
comment Not sure what to do about my teen daughters stealing and lying
@DaveClarke "cutting" in this context generally means self-harm. That's very serious.