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Beauty of God: every problem has at least one solution, or maybe more than one. First you observe, research, and find the habits of your brother, then work on those habits and try to build good relation-ship with him. At the same time, design a complete plan in black and white. Also, read human psychology because 90% of behaviors are similar for all ...


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First of all, these sorts of things are rarely caused by one event. Rather, that one event is usually the "straw that broke the camel's back" after a long series of problems in a relationship. If I had to guess, I would say your brother's "stuff" that happened was at least partially motivated by trying to elicit a certain kind of attention from your mom. ...


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As always with complications between parents and children (or any humans, actually), to me the most important questions seem to all start with: Why? Why did this seemingly minor thing make your brother move out? (If it is as you say, it probably wasn't the cause, but just the trigger. So what's the cause?) Why weren't your parents able to mend this? (Of ...


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Disclaimer: I'll use the word 'relationship' in the general sense, encompassing any kind of relationship; I'll use the term 'exclusive relationship' to refer to, well, an exclusive, mutually agreed to relationship. So, let me recap. He told her he doesn't want to be in an exclusive relationship; he wants them to be friends, and he want to have sex with her ...


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If it were me I would tell him to be completely open and honest from the start about what he wants from the relationship and not to lead her on. As long as he does that then as an adult the woman involved is perfectly capable of making up her own mind about how she wants to take things forward. It may sound cynical but women, in my experience, are not ...


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It seems like your son wants to have sex with women without committing to them emotionally, socially, or exclusively. Basically he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Furthermore it seems like he hasn't gone to you to see if this is something right or wrong, but to see how he can continue doing it without suffering any negative consequences. You should ...



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