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Moving to a new house and changing the daycare are big changes, a new bed is a small change. Potty training can be either, as is so often the case, it depends...
I see three separate issues here:
Can you separate the daycare switch from the moving? If you can, you definitely should consider making them two distinct events, IMO
Moving means a new room and ...
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Doing everything at once gets it over with in one go, but at the risk that it won't go very well.
I would changing one element at a time. Toddlers are a bit like people with autism; they like fixed patterns and repetition, any change can be upsetting. Especially when you're facing big changes, tread lightly.
I can't really say "do one change every two ...
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I second the other answers suggestion of looking for expats.
A few notes:
Your kids will forget a second (even first language) if it is not reinforced.
They learn language (and other behaviours) to talk to their peers even more than their parents. This means that there is very little you can do directly but also that you can be very effective by ...
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First of all, I love the fact that I get to tell one of the forum mods "YOR DOIN IT RONG!!!11"
IMO wait till the move. If it's planned and it's in the pretty near future (couple months), there's no reason not to wait. Every routine you have is going to be restarted anyway, and you'll even have to start some new ones.
Regardless of how you try to plan it, ...
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A lot of parenting at this age comes from just making your best call and teaching the child the "way it is" for them. If you look around the world, kids just learn to adapt to whatever, from the richest mansion to the poorest village -- what they are given is what is normal. It is your job to choose what is best for them.
I wouldn't worry about it. ...
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Given the new information you've offered, it takes a while for the oldest to fully grasp how fragile baby really is, as well as the ramifications of new baby, accept those and grow into being the trusted and helpful older sibling (in my case, I went back and forth between my "evil side" and my "good side" right up until I left for college).
All joking ...
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I've not been brave enough to try to teach my son German, my best non-native language, but our son is growing up as a bilingual Japanese-speaking child in the US.
In our case, we have the advantage that mom is a native speaker of Japanese, but we've observed that this is not enough; several parents we know have children 3-10 years old that simply refuse to ...
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