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It depends on why they are taking so much time in the bathroom. It could be that they are just enjoying the shower. Or they could be practicing different looks in front of the mirror. Or they could be enjoying the privacy of the bathroom - most teenagers don't have anywhere else that provides complete privacy with a locked door. Make sure they have those ...
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As you mentioned, it is the temperature change.
What may work for you is this:
Immediately prior to the bath, get a warm washcloth. Open his diaper, and clean his diaper area with the washcloth. Be careful with this! If it works, he may start to urinate while you are cleaning him, so you must be ready to quickly put the diaper back into place! ...
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Mary Jo mentions a common skin condition. That's probably a good guess and you can easily see the scales on the head.
If there are no scales, then perhaps it's just that famous baby smell. I never knew what "baby smell" smelled like before I had a child, but now I know it. It's a very nice smell. Savor it; it will be gone soon. If it's baby smell, then ...
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I think that 16 months is a rather young age to understand such a concept, but starting an early understanding of animals in general is a good idea. I just asked my 3 year old daughter if she knew the difference between a "wild mouse" and a "pet mouse" by asking her which she'd rather have in the house. She said a "pet mouse" but she didn't know what would ...
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In addition to @Balanced Mama's answer, you can also start a conversation:
"I notice you often forget to flush the toilet. It really bugs me because it's gross when I have to use the bathroom. So this is not working for me. What would help you remember?"
Have him brainstorm. Maybe he wants to make a 'remember to flush' sign for example.
FYI, "the softer ...
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Yes, this is normal and yes, in large part it will take care of itself (but you might even revisit it again when he is between ten and 13 during the pre-adolescent stage too.
To improve the situation, keep doing what you are doing. Also, NEVER flush for him (unless he is going to be gone for a few more hours). If you go in to use the bathroom yourself and ...
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Toddlers eat dirt and survive, sure. But infants haven't built up a solid immune system to deal with random dirt, so avoiding unnecessary exposure would be wise.
I'm sorry but I would agree with your wife. The problem is that a kitchen cloth is actually often not very clean because it's often not rinsed well between uses and isn't replaced often enough. ...
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Your baby may have cradle cap, which is a very common skin condition in infants. It's official name is seborrheic dermatitis. According to MedlinePlus (National Institute of Health):
It appears as thick, crusty, yellow or brown scales over the child's
scalp. Similar scales may also be found on the eyelids, ear, around
the nose, and in the groin. ...
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Any time, really - no transition work was needed as they saw that we preferred showers so obviously they wanted the same thing.
We started ours from around 18 months as they really enjoyed the spray. What we would typically do at that age is just take them in with us - and they can learn to close their eyes and tip their head back to avoid bubbles in their ...
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The smell becomes more noticable as she gets warm from combined body heat when feeding.
Your baby has the start of Cradle Cap. Gently rub a light unperfumed oil (almond, or vegetable oil) carefully into her scalp and leave for 30mins. Brush softly with baby hair brush to remove the sticky skin flakes, shampoo gently and carefully rinse thoroughly with ...
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Infant: When my first son was still an infant, I would sometimes take him on my arm and shower with him. My wife would take him out and dry him while I showered myself. He loved the sensation of water falling on him.
Age 1: We have a tub/shower combination so whenever he was done with a bath in the tub (on his own, with one parent watching from the side), ...
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I agree fully with Rory's answer. But something else that was helpful is doing graduated supervision. So first it's them in the shower with you, then you sitting on the bathroom floor or somewhere in the bathroom while they shower, and then it's them in the master bathroom and you in the bedroom if you have that set up.
My little sister is twelve years ...
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You should sit down and discuss with your son or daughter what the underlying problem is and brainstorm possible solutions.
Is the problem that his siblings are not getting a turn to shower in the morning? Or it's making them late for school? Is it that the siblings need to get in the bathroom to brush their teeth or use the toilet? Is it that there's only ...
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You can make a deal with your teenager. Short showers in the morning and if he plans on taking longer showers or a bath he has to wait until he's the last one using the bathroom or take the longer shower at night. When he doesn't keep to that rule, you can agree to turn off the hot water as Grant proposed.
If this is about water costs, you can skip the ...
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Having your teeth brushed by someone else isn't nice. It's invasive. Realizing that much is a good start. The right brushes, being aware of when and where your child is teething and gentleness all help, but it's unlikely to ever be an entirely enjoyable process.
The usual combination of patience, consistency and self control comes into play too.
Getting ...
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Some nails are just like this. If so, you will just have to keep them trimmed well to prevent scratching.
However, a fungal infection is very possible. Cloudy nails, spotted nails, discolored nail, thick nails, tent nails and curled nails are all common symptoms. But you don't need more than one symptom to be the problem. In fact, you could be completely ...
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I was watching The Two Towers one day, while my daughter was watching a princess movie in the other room. She wandered in and started watching The Two Towers with me. There were some orcs on the screen, and it struck me. "Addison, see those guys? They're called orcs. See their teeth? They're yucky aren't they? That's what happens when you don't brush ...
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What's worked well for us is to put our child into the bath while it's still empty, and let the water run for a minute or so.
This way they'll feel the water, and if they need to go, it'll be while the plug is still out. Then you can rinse out the tub and start the bath without worrying about it.
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For our youngest we also used a reward system, as when she was 5 she would do exactly this. She was just in too much of a hurry to go and play with her siblings.
So we draw a chart with her; think it ended up being a princess castle with 20 steps - and it went up on the door. Every time she remembered to flush and wash without being reminded, she would get ...
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After some unhappy struggles, mostly ending in him lying pinned in my lap while I forcibly brushed them :-( I realised it was too stressful for us both and so tried putting some toothpaste on his and my brushes, giving him my toothbrush to do my teeth whilst brushing his. It worked like magic. He is too busy brushing mine to complain and at the same time ...
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I always told my little one, all animals have their place in the grander ecology of Earth, the place for spiders, mice, rats, etc. is NOT in MY HOUSE because they are wild and carry dirt and diseases and because they belong out in the wild.
I also tried to use catch and re-release methods for most things and do preventative things like ant and spider ...
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Wiping the gums with a bit of gauze before teeth have even popped out is recommended by my hygienist because bacteria can build up on the gums. It also gets them used to the sensation of having something in their mouth right away making brushing easier later.
She says they make tools for this task, but they need disinfecting right away if you buy the tool.
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My sister is a dentist, so she gave a cute toothbrush with lights on it. When my son saw it, he was too excited to use it, and he keeps on playing with it, while I was helping him to brush his teeth. Then I also bought fruit flavored toothpaste, so he would enjoy his toothbrush experience. If doesn't like to brush his teeth, I don't force him, but I am ...
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There's no better way just to brush your own teeth. As often as possible. Kids are 'programmed' to copy their parents. They are interested in everything we do.
These days there are of course some applications that help to develop such habits like http://familymobileapps.com/moodup-educational-apps-for-children/
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