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How to treat an obstinate 3-and-a-half years old child daughter?

How can we treat a child of age 4 to 5 years old as a parent who is very intelligent but too much obstinate and cry too much when we restrict her from doing something.She just wants to do each and ...
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0answers
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Is my son deaf? [on hold]

My son is currently 9 years old and still hasn't uttered a single word. He understands the language and writes English but his school teachers keep on complaining that he may be deaf. As a child, he ...
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3answers
665 views

What schedule works for working parents and their kids to have dinner together as a family?

Each day during the week, I pick up my 1.5-year-old daughter at daycare on my way home from work, and we are home between around 5:30 or 5:45. By then, she is quite hungry, since they eat at 2 pm at ...
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my 3yr hits his 4yr old cousin, but my 3yr is getting picked on by his older cousin whom is 8-9, how should i respond to that?

My 3 year old son is hitting his 4 year old cousin, who is a girl. He is bigger than her. I am constantly on him, I have tried time out, I always make him apologize and give her a hug, which he loves ...
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1answer
108 views

Withering family (help pls)

I'm a child and not a parent. I don't understand what to do in the situation I'm describing below. I have both my parents and a brother. It all started a 2 years back. 2 years back we were all ...
4
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1answer
54 views

How can I explain to my 4 year old that his friend has moved away?

My 4 year old son has a good friend who is a foster child. She was being fostered (with two siblings) by a couple who lived not far from us and we were just beginning to get friendly with this family, ...
3
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1answer
185 views

Clean children vs dirty children

Which is better for toddler/pre-schooler's health? To let them get dirty (play as they will in sand, mud, dust, seawater) and wash them appropriately or try to keep them clean? What impacts do these ...
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1answer
104 views

Should we protect our childred from getting ill?

Nowadays there are very few sicknesses that a toddler or a pre-schooler can catch and that will kill or irreversibly harm him. Most bacteria infections can be treated and there is little real danger. ...
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134 views

Appropriate confrontational behaviour to teach a 2-year-old?

At my two-year-old daughter's nursery, there's one "energetic" boy who is perhaps a little lacking in the empathy or discipline department. What I'm saying is, he occasionally behaves too roughly ...
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107 views

What should I do with my life now? [on hold]

I am 25 years old girl. When I was in my high school, I had good grades so,I went to study in a good college. Soon, by coincidence I got into a relationship with a boy. Since then I paid very less ...
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1answer
52 views

Adoption/Foster Care: How should I deal with abandonment issues?

I plan on becoming a foster parent after being adopted myself. However, I went through a lot of abandonment issues that my parents didn't see as I had changed hands a few times before I was adopted. ...
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0answers
87 views

At what age is it suggested to enounciate specific expectations around sexual activity?

As many other parents, I have my own ideas of rules/expectations of my kids around their future sexual activity (from obvious - such as no sex with anyone who was not negatively tested for STDs and ...
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2answers
166 views

Step Parent - To be concerned or not to be

Brief history: Became involved with a young woman, knowing she had a 5 year old daughter. Biological dad was in the picture til daughter was 2-3, and then left the state. Strangled mother while ...
2
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2answers
152 views

Behavior changes after social events

My eight year-old son just spent a week at cub scout day camp (home in the evenings), after which he has been lying extensively. He has had problems with extensive lying before, but had mostly gotten ...
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14answers
13k views

Why does my 16-year-old hate me?

My 16-year-old son says the most awful things to me. I feel he is deliberately trying to upset/provoke me constantly. For example, last night at the dinner table he said, "I am not going to try to ...
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4answers
2k views

When/how is it safe to go running with baby?

My partner is an avid trail runner and before I was pregnant I didn't mind getting out too. At the very least I hope to do some brisk trail walking with bub. I'd assumed to run with a bub you had to ...
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4answers
2k views

Stop breastfeeding

My child is 3 years old. I want to know which is the best way to stop breastfeeding? She cries and fights with her mother if her mother refuses to breastfeed her. And we also found that it also helps ...
3
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2answers
147 views

How can I encourage my home schooled children to be more confident in the open?

I have 3 nieces. Two are twins aged 4 and one is aged 2. My sister is home schooling them and she has started with so many activities and lessons for them in the house. Problem falls when she takes ...
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12answers
8k views

My 9 year old son regards life as meaningless [on hold]

My son, who is currently 9 years of age, tells me that life is absolutely meaningless and that "we're all here to waste time". When he first told me this, I felt both angry and depressed. And no, ...
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0answers
32 views

Shrieking crying 6 month old

So, our boy (one half of a set of 6 month old b/g twins) has just recently started his temper tantrums. He used to be pretty mellow - with his sister having some medical issues where she was more ...
4
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2answers
273 views

Why does my 16 year old sister still bite?

When I was laying on my bed minding my own business, my sister who was still angry over something came over and bit my hand. Like really bit my hand, which left teeth marks. I am at my wits end! I'm ...
5
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2answers
118 views

Names or Phrases to Use for Step-Mom?

We were taking a great family vacation and on the way back, a stranger asked my 6-year old daughter if my girlfriend was her mom. She said "no, this is Ema, who lives with us." Both of them ended up ...
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0answers
58 views

Encourage your child to do X or prevent them from doing Y?

If your child is going astray, is it more productive to instill proper values and hope for the best or should you also take extra steps to prevent the thing you're afraid of? My concern is that if ...
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1answer
95 views

Is falling onto a mattress safe? [closed]

What happens to the body of a 3 year old when dropping her constantly from 6 foot tall father to 3 inch foam mattress topper on a bed for fun?
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2answers
302 views

What is a polite way to ask others not to comment on baby girl only for her looks?

Now I might be mistaken but it seems from the very beginning people call baby girls pretty (superficial) and "little princess" (expectation of having minimal utility) and baby boys strong (innate) and ...
9
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2answers
306 views

How do I help my son deal with a sexually abusive bully in preschool?

My son (4 1/2) attends a pre-school that we all like very much. He's in a class of kids ranging from 3 to 5. He generally prefers to socialize with the older children. In this particular class, ...
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1answer
125 views

What language should I speak to my daughter?

I am a Greek, born, living and working in France, married to an Albanian woman, working all day in English. I have a 2,5 year old daughter, who lived from: September 2014 to April 2015 and ...
2
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3answers
328 views

1-month baby crying when on floor

I am a first time father with 1-month old DS. My wife has been exclusively breastfeeding, 20 mins on each breast every two hours. Currently both my wife and the baby are on a medication because they ...
2
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1answer
81 views

What do I do when my eleven year old son is down on himself?

My son is eleven years old, and I struggle with how to teach / empower him to apply himself. For example, when he first started playing the trumpet, he didn't want to practice, but I explained that ...
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4answers
4k views

How strict should I be with my 9 month old?

I want him to be well behaved but I also want him to be happy and to feel loved by us. I find it difficult to balance telling him off so the he understands not to drop food on the floor, grab my ...
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0answers
46 views

permissive parents and the development of sibling rivalry [closed]

Does anyone have any information about or studies done on the development of sibling rivalry where permissive parenting style may be a moderator or contributing factor?
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0answers
100 views

when baby did not respond, I saw grandmother blowing up air through the ears while mouth/nose closed? Is it something really bad? [closed]

when baby did not respond (seemed unresponsive god knows why), I have seen grandmother blowing up air through the ears while mouth/nose closed? Is it something really bad? It's something i have heard ...
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0answers
55 views

Suggestions on keeping a soon to be 7 year old engaged during summer vacation

I have a soon to be 7 year old and a soon to be 2 year old. Now that school year is over I'm wondering how to keep her engaged. With the 2 year old, its hard for my wife to balance time with summer ...
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2answers
53 views

Infant sunscreen recommendations for child with sensitive skin

Our daughter has pretty sensitive skin and has broken out with eczema once. We've tried Banana Boat and Blue Lizard and she's broken out from both. What are sunscreen ingredients to avoid (or to look ...
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0answers
99 views

Do Parents Hire Male Childcare Workers?

I have been considering taking up a job as a male nanny, but in doing some research have found startlingly few male nannies registered in my area. Nannies, upper east bay: 287 Nannies Found Male ...
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vote
1answer
70 views

How do I get my 20 month old son to eat solids?

My son is 20 months and only eats Gerber purée's. He gags with any thing slightly lumpy or chunky. He will literally push the spoon away after spitting the SMALL, crumb-piece out. He does not ...
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5answers
5k views

What language should I use to talk to my baby?

I know two languages: My 'mother tongue' and English. I used to speak my mother tongue until I moved to an English-speaking country at the age of 8. Consequently, my mother tongue is at the level of ...
2
votes
1answer
114 views

Infant cries and stiffens a like board when sat down

Hello parents of the stack, My lovely 11-month old daughter, since learning to crawl, detests being sat down in her high chair to eat, or on the toilet to eliminate. She does this stiffening move to ...
2
votes
2answers
87 views

When should I take my pregnant wife to the hospital for nausea?

My wife is 12 weeks along with our first child and we are very excited to be parents next year. However, since about week 6, she has had quite a few bouts with nausea. We were quite aware that this ...
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2answers
128 views

I want more time with my wife in our blended family, but she says no. [closed]

My wife and I have been married for about 8 months. We both have two children, each. I moved into her house with her kids. I have my kids twice a week and every other weekend. I told my wife I ...
3
votes
1answer
214 views

How often should a 6 week old, bottle fed baby have a bowel movement?

My baby is 6 weeks and she only poos every 3 day. Is this normal? The doctor says he is not concerned. I went to the pharmacy and she told me to try a bit of water between feedings, but it still ...
3
votes
1answer
174 views

Single parent having behaviour issues with son (11) not wanting my partner around

I was recommended this site as palace that I might be able to get some advice about how to deal with/understand my son. He is 11 and I have been single with him since he was 1 aside a few short-term ...
3
votes
3answers
126 views

Should a newborn be allowed to sleep all night, or be woken up to eat more?

My son is 2 weeks old and is sleeping through the night. I bottle feed. I give him 4oz. During the day he will sleep after his bottle only 4 to 5 hrs, but at night he will sleep all night. For example ...
2
votes
1answer
152 views

Validity on a study about spanking children

Earlier today, I got into an argument with someone about spanking children and whether or not it caused them to become more violent later in life in addition to other issues. Eventually, this article ...
2
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1answer
46 views

Is it dangerous to swaddle a baby that can roll over?

I have heard that it is an absolute must that you stop swaddling your baby once they are able to roll over, due to the potential that they could roll over onto their stomach and then be unable to roll ...
2
votes
2answers
63 views

What is the best milk fat content for a toddler aged 2?

I've read contradicting claims about whether you can give skim milk for toddlers over 2, or just low-fat. In fact, my daughter is two and a half and only 12 kg, so our goal would be to gain weight, ...
1
vote
1answer
54 views

Reading to a colicky infant?

My 4-week-old daughter suffers from extreme gas pain that leaves her spending very few waking hours in a content, attentive state. Our lives for the past month have literally been about near-constant ...
0
votes
1answer
164 views

I just had a e-cigarette at school and I got caught. I'm only 14 what should I do

At school a kid brought a e-cigarette to school and my friends pressured me to try it (that is where I should have walked away). I never actually inhaled I just put it to my mouth and said I did and ...
2
votes
1answer
118 views

What are examples of child-friendly rap? [closed]

My 10-year old son is interested in hip-hop dances. When I asked him about whether he'd like to write rap songs, he said it would interest him. I want to take a piece of rap lyrics and then show him, ...
3
votes
1answer
86 views

One year old scared of the doctor and similar situations

My 14 month old has been affraid when at the doctor's office from when he was about 8-9 months old. He was having a normal checkup and didn't even get any shots but started crying when the doctor ...

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