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What do you say when your child says “You're mean!”

A couple of recent posts (this one in particular) reminded me of this question, which I haven't seen asked. (I searched, too.) I've dealt with it a few different ways myself, which I'm not happy ...
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2answers
534 views

What to do when an eight-year old says “sorry” in a not sorry voice

My daughter sometimes hurts me. When it's physical, it's pretty much almost always accidental. But sometimes when she's mad, she says mean things that are meant to hurt. If I say "Ow!" or "That hurt ...
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4answers
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How do I babyproof an electrical baseboard heater?

My son is 9 month old, and our rental apartment has an electric baseboard heater, similar to this http://cadetheat.com/show_product.php?prodid=1004 I'm sure it's very dangerous to touch it when ...
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2answers
45 views

Sleeping duration for a toddler [duplicate]

My 15-month old has 2 long sleeps during the day. From 10am to 12 or 1pm and the second sleep from 3.30pm to 6pm. I have read around that at this age he should be sleeping around 2 hrs during the ...
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1answer
92 views

We are beginning the process to foster and adopt a second child, how do we temper our first child's expectations?

I'd like to start by saying, I've seen the question, How can we prepare our child for the arrival of adopted siblings and although I have not looked at every linked resource thoroughly, it looks like ...
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4answers
434 views

How do you respond to your pre-schooler when they tell you that you're on Santa's Naughty List?

My three-year-old son really enjoyed Christmas. My son is still talking about how Santa came to our house to fill our stockings two times (my wife put treats in one night, and I put some in two days ...
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8answers
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How do I convince a stubborn 8 year old that the parents are supposed to be in charge?

Our daughter thinks she has an equal say in any of our decisions. She only does the things we tell her to do if she thinks they make sense, otherwise we have to threaten her, which makes her threaten ...
3
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2answers
172 views

How can I explain New Year to a preschooler?

We've been trying to explain New Year to our 4-year-old but since he doesn't yet have a good understanding of the calendar, time references are meaningless to him. How do you explain this? This is ...
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2answers
107 views

Toddler started to not fall asleep anymore

Our little girl, who is 21 months old, has been sleeping really well pretty much from the beginning. We established a good routine sleeping through the night, no problem. Since Christmas however she ...
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4answers
565 views

When a child only gets enthused about books above his reading level

My six year-old son gets very excited about Lego Chima and Ninjago, and when we go to the library, he specifically asks me to find books about them. I want to indulge his enthusiasm for reading. The ...
3
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2answers
897 views

When to transition to letting the baby fall asleep on its own? Is my baby ready for sleep training?

Our daughter is 2 months old. As of right now, we have a pretty well working routine of putting the baby to sleep. Bath, lights out, long feeding, then falling asleep on our hands, then falling asleep ...
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0answers
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Baby does not sleep on her own [duplicate]

Our six month old daughter cant sleep on her own , a loud scream is an indicator that she wants to sleep , if all other things are ruled out.We need to take her to the swing and sing to make her sleep ...
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0answers
19 views

my 17 month old wakes up crying during night [duplicate]

My 17 month old keeps waking up everynight at around 3 half 3 crying and her crying lasts for an hour every night and I can't seem to settle her this has happend for about a week now, since we moved ...
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6answers
988 views

Loud Screaming to attract attention

Our 6 month baby screams at top of her throat to get attention , as soon as we resume playing with her she smiles and plays and she wants to play all day along which is not possible , so how to deal ...
7
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6answers
581 views

What are some good natural teethers?

It seems our 6 month baby wants to take everything in her mouth, it would be nice if we were able to give her some natural food-based teethers, but which edible substances can be used as teethers? Do ...
4
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1answer
146 views

How do I get my toddler to stop waking at 4am? [duplicate]

My 12 month old has been waking at 4-4:30 am for quite some time. He usually doesn't require anything to go back to sleep but just wakes crying and grizzly. Sometimes I go in and give him his dummy ...
0
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1answer
106 views

Parental Control for Internet? [duplicate]

For a parent, how do we best control the content of the ENTIRE household's Internet in a centralized manner? This settings of parent controls for individual network-based devices is maddening and ...
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6answers
659 views

Kid screaming after waking up in a car?

I recently became involved with this awesome guy who has two kids. His son who is 3 is a very sweet boy. But when we take car rides and he wakes up while in the car he is hysterical. I've heard of ...
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3answers
420 views

16mo still not walking, I think it's my fault?

On Thanksgiving my baby girl took her first two steps by herself. When this happened the six people that were around her at the time, including myself, flipped out and started clapping and got really ...
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5answers
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Should I tell my 11-year-old daughter that Santa isn't real?

Okay, so my daughter is 11 years old and still believes in Santa Claus. Normally, I would be okay with her believing for another year or two, but the past Christmas or two her belief of Santa is ...
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1answer
581 views

How to successfully start the infant on semi solid foods?

The kid turned 6 months old on 17th Decemeber 2013. I have failed to make her eat any solid foods properly. She doesn't want to eat with spoon. She doesn't like plain lentils. She doesn't like ...
8
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4answers
510 views

How can self-consciousness be taught?

Most kids my son's age (six) seem to have a degree of natural self-consciousness that helps them regulate their behavior. By this, I mean when they are in an unfamiliar situation, they tend to hang ...
2
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1answer
3k views

Properly suctioning mouth of infant with bulb syringe

My 5 month old is having a horrible time with a cold currently. He's been progressively producing a large amount of phlegm - now to the point that he's coughing almost continuously and having a hard ...
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4answers
5k views

Why do toddler boys love trains and cars so much?

My two-year-old loves trains. He really loves trains, especially steam engines, like Thomas. Many other parents have said that their boys love (or loved) trains, and I can remember being enamoured ...
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3answers
294 views

Helping my Whirling Dervish to slow down

My seven-year old is tall, lean, looking and speaking like someone who is a few years her senior. This means people (even those that know her actual age) often have higher expectations of her than ...
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2answers
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My 3 years old doesn't tell me when he needs to use the bathroom

My son is 3 years old, and doesn't tell me when he needs to use the bathroom,it has been 5 months now that I took his diaper off off him, I just do not know what I should do. Should I put a diaper on ...
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3answers
222 views

What's a good way to encourage a toddler to blow their nose?

My son refuses to blow his nose. Goo streams down his top lip, and he sniffs it up again if we don't catch it in time. What's a good way to encourage a two-year-old to blow their nose into a tissue ...
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5answers
250 views

Don't touch my hair!

I have little twins that aren't two years old. One of them I have no problem washing his hair; he even laughts when I dry it with the towel. His brother screams his lungs out every single day, every ...
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4answers
107 views

How can I find good lullabies for my child?

What is it about lullabies that sooth a child to sleep? What characteristics in music should I look for when trying to find new lullabies to sing to my newborn?
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3answers
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How to prevent or heal chapped cheeks in a toddler?

My two-year-old is starting to get chapped cheeks as winter approaches. Last year, his cheeks were red and seemed sore, so I tried rubbing lip balm (chap stick) on the cheeks to help him out. However, ...
5
votes
5answers
345 views

What can I do to help my child have confidence when in new situations?

I have an 8 year old son who is unbelievably shy and/or scared in new situations. When he is at home, he is loud, confident and, yes, even a little out of control. However, once he is presented with ...
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0answers
41 views

How do you disinfect toys? [duplicate]

My mom bought some toys from a woman with a very sick son. They had yet to find out what was wrong with him. The toys have sat in an unheated detached garage for more than 2 months. Will they be safe ...
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6answers
635 views

How to help a tomboy not dread puberty

She's ten and mostly plays with the boys, fitting in well due to her easy-going nature, outstanding athleticism, strong sense of fair play, and wild and crazy sense of humor. She's super competitive, ...
4
votes
0answers
169 views

What do I do with my husband? [closed]

I dont know how to say this but, well, I dont even know if I am asking this on the right website but, I am Jessica and I am 27 years old, and i got a son, Carl. He is only 6 years old and he is very ...
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votes
3answers
2k views

Two year old still takes a bottle of milk before bedtime, should I wean her from the bottle and the milk?

The milk is part of her bedtime routine... Should she still be using a bottle? She doesn't need the milk, it has just been a staple in her bedtime routine. I know that this is potentially bad for ...
4
votes
1answer
291 views

How can I alleviate my 34 month old little girl's fear of poo? [duplicate]

I feel incredibly stupid and awful about this, but a while ago I jokingly referred to my daughters' poo (in her nappy, not in the toilet) as a monster (because it was so big). I think I have now ...
13
votes
1answer
733 views

Does a child need to apologize and how should I react while it does not?

Our son is 6 years old and often quite "bullheaded". If something does not go the way he wants, he is very frustrated and quickly shows a tantrum, cries, screams and insults us. We then send him to ...
0
votes
1answer
309 views

Disparity of 2 weeks from LMP. But, interval growth between the scanning is normal [closed]

My LMP is 5th May (05/05) when we did USG (scanning) on 6th October (06/10) the report said there is a disparity of 2 weeks from the LMP (BPD, HC and AC). We are really worried about this. Will this ...
6
votes
1answer
448 views

How fast does the prenatal swimming reflex disappear?

How fast does the swimming reflex of an infant disappear and how can I keep it active without going to the pool in the first 6 months of its life?
8
votes
1answer
208 views

When the three year old tells two unmarried, unrelated adults to hug and kiss goodbye - What then?

I baby sit a three year old regularly. When I leave he is asked to choose between a hug and kiss, a high five, or a fist bump as a way to see me off. So, the other morning, when his Dad was leaving ...
6
votes
1answer
308 views

Trying to be the best stepdad I can be.

The relationship I am in is the first with someone that has a kid of her own (I have 2). Her son is 7 years old and I've been his life since he was 4. I noticed then that his mother let him talk to ...
5
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3answers
7k views

5 yr old son behaving sexually

My son is 5 years old. Over the last few months I have been observing some disturbing sexual behavior from my child. He is rubbing his penis on the bed or pillow. Sometimes he would get naked and ...
13
votes
8answers
954 views

First keyboard: Qwerty or Dvorak?

Should I start my toddler off with a Qwerty or Dvorak keyboard? I use Qwerty myself. I have tried to learn Dvorak but I failed. The Qwerty key strokes are so hardwired in me that it would take a ...
12
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6answers
1k views

How to Teach That Following Rules is Not Always Good?

My 8 year old son has an issue with following rules a little too closely. He gets upset if rules and/or routine are broken. For instance, last night he was upset because a classmate was singing ...
10
votes
2answers
978 views

Is Video Chatting Bad for Newborns?

I've read that the AAP says that TV is bad for children under 2, but is video chatting (e.g., Skype or Google Hangouts)? My wife & I both have family that is out of state. The grandparents ...
7
votes
3answers
160 views

How to keep our 15 month away from the fireplace when she thinks it's a game?

We have a fireplace and we're trying to get her to stay away from it but she's infatuated with closing the glass doors which is dangerous for not only her but the rest of us since they have to remain ...
5
votes
1answer
278 views

How do I deal with my out of control 3 year old?

My son will be 4 in a month, and he is very aggressive toward his brothers. He hits, kicks, bites them and takes their toys. He screams at my 1 year old constantly when he touches anything or ...
7
votes
1answer
433 views

when do children start answering questions ?

My child is 2.5 years old. He understands two step instructions and expresses himself. However, he does not answers questions. For example: if I ask where is your mom? he will not answer that she is ...
2
votes
2answers
446 views

What should my wife eat and drink during pregnancy? [closed]

During pregnancy, what would be the great foods that I could make for my wife? *(does not matter if it is morning, afternoon or dinner) I have to choose and prepare the food. This is not my ...
2
votes
1answer
433 views

I plan to send my child to mission school at 4+, should I send them somewhere else before then?

My son is 22 months old. My wife's dream is to enroll our only son to one of the finest schools in Bangalore like Bishop Cotton, Frank Anthony, St. Joseph, Baldwin Boys et. al. My understanding is, ...

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