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2answers
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My sister thinks her kid can “swim”, but he can't breathe in the water. This is DEFCON-1 danger, right? [closed]

I am a childless uncle who just became very worried about the water safety of my nephew. Whether this is my business, or not, I'm thinking of making it my business: My nephew (who is 4-yrs old) ...
3
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2answers
478 views

My 4 year old daughter refuses to eat!

My 4yr old daughter had a little choking scare with a piece of popcorn 9 days ago. since then she has refused to eat anything except freezies, 9 days without solid food! We have been to the doctor ...
2
votes
2answers
192 views

Vaccination doesn't cause autism, but what does? [closed]

It is proven that vaccinations doesn't cause autism. But I read from various internet/documentary/newspaper sources which claim that they have personally witnessed their child showing signs of ...
4
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2answers
217 views

How to advise a 9-yr-old girl to stay away from boys but not hate 'em?

The society we live in, there are many chances of molestation. So, I want to advise her that stay away from boys. But at the same time, I don't want her to hate boys forever as once she grows, she has ...
4
votes
2answers
157 views

Visiting a third world country before meeting a newborn

I'm an expat from the UK living in the USA. My father works in the charity sector visiting third world countries and sees a visit to Haiti which coincides which my wife's due date as an opportunity to ...
25
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9answers
5k views

Can a punishment be devoid of any “violence”?

If parents give a spank to their child, this is considered violence and as such frown upon - and in some countries simply a crime under the law. In my observation, parents who don't want to spank ...
11
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6answers
4k views

Son (22) has to keep initiating contact between son and parents after moving out

Me being 22, I moved out a year ago (about half an hour drive away) to live with my girlfriend after I proposed too her. I always (and believe I still do) had/have a good connection with my parents ...
30
votes
4answers
9k views

My 2 year old is a bully! [duplicate]

My son doesn't want to share anything with other kids, and if some kid even so much as touches his toy, he pushes the kid. He shouts and cries at the same time, and tries to express his anger by ...
12
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5answers
3k views

Healthy 10 month old baby bouncing himself while standing - will this injure his hips?

Someone told me that my 10 month old grandson was injuring his hips by continually bouncing himself when he stands while holding onto a couch or table. He seems very healthy and strong. Is there a ...
4
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1answer
72 views

Mold in breast pump filter

We just found out that the filter in our madela breast pump filter has some mold in it. We have pump and stored about 5 bottles of milk with that filter. Should we throw the milk away?
10
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5answers
223 views

7 year old demands to go to sleep at 5:00 pm

My 7 year old son (and his brother, 5 sometimes) in winter generally demands to go to bed as soon as the sun goes down. We really wish he would stay up to 6:30-7:00 or so because when he goes to bed ...
2
votes
2answers
104 views

Infant of 10 months refuses milk and water

So my daughter sometimes refuses milk, but she also refuses water. I usually replace milk with yogurt or some cheese, but how do I make sure she gets enough water ? Last time she refused milk, she ...
12
votes
3answers
680 views

How to answer someone who says, “What he needs is a good spanking!”

I was in a restaurant when my 2.5 year old decided to throw a major tantrum. I used time outs, so I scooped him up and carried him towards the door (he was crying and flailing). Much to my ...
2
votes
4answers
138 views

My children like to fall asleep to music, what product will turn itself off after an hour?

My children like to fall asleep to music, have you used a helpful product that will timeout after, say 1 hour? Otherwise, the music plays all night. I'm not sure if that is bad.
2
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1answer
130 views

Sympathetic Adults

You all know adults who undermine your authority when you're out and about with your children. They coddle your kids when they misbehave, and your kids know it and take advantage of the situation to ...
7
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5answers
1k views

my 2yr old cries at daycare during drop off time

Help! My two year old daughter has cried since day one (back in September) when I drop her off at daycare. We are now in December. This I believe has now caused her twin brother to cry as well when I ...
0
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1answer
53 views

Hard and painful stool in infant - is this normal? [duplicate]

On several different occasions my daughter (7mnths-12mnths) was trying to poop, but then she would start crying like she was in pain. When I checked her diaper she had a big hard fat poop coming out, ...
5
votes
1answer
63 views

Does Tongue-tie really affect talking?

I had my DD in this August. At beginning the breastfeeding was painful. The pediatrician suggested it was probably caused by DD's tongue-tie. I decided to have the operation for her. Before the ...
3
votes
3answers
121 views

Can giving a book that is too advanced for the child put the child off?

I found (what I thought is) a really cool book to give my niece for her 7th birthday. The book (The Ultimate Book About Me by Richard Platt) is all about what makes a person, genes, how your brain ...
4
votes
3answers
288 views

How to immediately correct a (gross) habit?

My son, an only child, is 19 months old. His two "siblings" are dogs twice his size and they get along great (I'm not sure how that sentence reads, but I'm not one of those people that actually ...
22
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14answers
3k views

How to teach a child to swallow pills?

All my kids are bad at swallowing pills. For whatever reason, it doesn't go to the back of the mouth easily for straightforward swallowing. This is particularly problematic for the oldest (now 10), ...
4
votes
2answers
194 views

Why is a 7 year old always suggesting catastrophic outcomes?

What's a good way to deter "worst case" questions? My son loves to pipe up with oddball rebuttals. Some recent examples... me: We'll be getting to Grandma's in about five minutes, yay! son: What ...
17
votes
8answers
2k views

How can I address toddler's fear of water over her face?

Our 2 and half year old daughter who used to love baths, playing in the pool and just playing with water now is terrified to bathe. It is a battle to even get her in the tub, let alone to try and ...
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votes
1answer
140 views

Which way is correct to keep your kids on the right path: love or strict discipline? [closed]

Recently I had very serious conversation with my married friend regarding parenting of kids in which way need to deal with them love or Strict rules and descipline. I am in side of love and ...
9
votes
4answers
267 views

Keeping one year-old out of the kitchen

We have a one year-old son who we can't keep out of the kitchen. When someone is in the kitchen, he likes to come and stand next to them, grab onto their legs and try to reach things on the counter. ...
1
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2answers
388 views

Younger sister blackmailing parents

She's currently 16. She won't listen to a word my parents have to say. When they ask for the phone, since she's glued to it 24/7 and her grades have plummeted, she won't listen. She knows how to get ...
1
vote
3answers
170 views

how to help my 4 yr old son to recognize alphabet and numbers?

I have put my son to preschool when he was 1.8 yrs now he is 4 yrs old. He is not recognizing the alphabet and numbers. He is fast in writing. He writes the alphabet and numbers but doesn't ...
0
votes
1answer
111 views

My son wants to learn to ride a motorbike. How can I discourage him?

I'd prefer my son doesn't get his motorbike licence because I think it is dangerous. How can I convince him otherwise?
2
votes
1answer
145 views

Why is my 6 day old newborn not pooping everyday [closed]

My 6 day old newborn has not had a bowel movement in almost 2 days. Should I be worried? She is strictly breastfed.
10
votes
10answers
4k views

Should we get her a doll?

Winter is coming, and with it, Christmas and presents. We have a 3 years old daughter, who has an almost 2 months old sister, and it's time thinking about which toys to get her (we have almost full ...
6
votes
5answers
167 views

Attention issue or low self-esteem

My 9yrs old son is quadrilingual ( fluent in all), education is in the language that both my husband and i are not speaking. His reading and grammar skills are higher than class's average, however he ...
1
vote
2answers
191 views

Child worse than tattling she lies

Anyone have any thoughts on this? I observed Bella - 6 years old. Playing with children. This was all in the time frame of 30 minutes. Sophia accidentally brushes her lightly on the arm. She said ...
3
votes
0answers
49 views

Why don't my twins sleep for a longer stretch of time? [duplicate]

My twins are 4 1/2 months old. They are exclusively breastfed. We start our bedtime routine at 8: we take a bath, breastfeed, then rock to sleep. By 10 they will be asleep. However, each 2-3 hrs they ...
4
votes
2answers
124 views

Sudden fear of swimming!

My 2 and half year old girl has always loved swimmming we lived abroad in Spain for most of her life so she was always been in the water, head under or not, we got her some swimming lessons, she went ...
2
votes
1answer
158 views

What to do if my one year old won't chew her food

My daughter will be two years old in 4 months, and she still doesn't like to chew her food. She won't spit it out; she just tries to swallow it whole. What should I do to help her learn to chew her ...
2
votes
1answer
206 views

Why would a 15 year old just stop talking. Like 'Selective Mutism'?

My 15 year old daughter just stopped talking and I have no clue why. She won't talk to anybody. She has gone to her principal about the situation. Her principal has given her permission to write her ...
4
votes
2answers
184 views

Questions about “Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids”

I just heard about Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids by Dr. Laura Markham (on this site) and I started looking into it. I really like some of the things I've read about this approach to parenting, but I ...
5
votes
2answers
114 views

Bat mitzvah party invitations

My daughter is having her bat mitzvah party in January. A few other girls have had birthday parties and did not include her. They are now asking her if they are being invited which makes her really ...
3
votes
4answers
284 views

8-year-old refuses to blow his nose

My 8-year-old son constantly has a runny nose. When he sniffles and I hear it, I'll usually ask him to blow his nose. Sometimes he starts arguing and whining as soon as I ask - for some reason he ...
6
votes
4answers
160 views

6-year-old bed wetting

It seems that most questions on this site about bed wetting involve toddlers. My 6-year-old daughter (almost 7) still wets the bed almost every night. After she was potty trained (a long, difficult ...
0
votes
0answers
73 views

My wife is pregnant and I don't want to be part of it, what I should do? [duplicate]

My wife is pregnant with her 8th child. She has 3 from her first marriage, 2 more with another relation, and I married her and we have 2 more. She got pregnant while she has both an IUD and is on ...
2
votes
4answers
125 views

7-year-old can't sleep

What has worked for you to get your small child to sleep at bedtime? My daughter is 7, bedtime is 8:30. It's currently 11:10 and she is still calling because she can't sleep. We've counted sheep and I ...
5
votes
2answers
161 views

What can I do about 3 year old holding in pee all the time?

I have taken away pull ups/diapers during the day for my 3 year old. Since then, he has gone on the toilet a few times, but usually he will hold it in as much as he can, and then once he can no longer ...
5
votes
1answer
101 views

Teaching the details of etiquette and table manners

There's a range of good behaviors that I classify as "table manners." These range from pretty basic (don't throw food) to general politeness (use your fork and spoon, napkin on lap) to moderately ...
7
votes
1answer
180 views

How to help (and bathe) a toddler who is terrified of the plughole in the bath?

Our 2½-year old has very recently developed a fear of the plughole in the bath. She is not just afraid but properly terrified to the point that I bathed her in her baby brother's bathtub-in-a-bath ...
3
votes
1answer
203 views

Natural consequence for being rude to a sibling?

My 8-year-old son really likes to argue. He's extremely stubborn and always right. When he argues with me, I'll correct him and laugh it off when he continues. Now, I'm a fan of natural consequences, ...
4
votes
1answer
48 views

Finding a Good Photo-Heavy Cookbook for Young Kids? [closed]

I'm trying to involve my 5-year old and 3-year old more in meal planning and eventually cooking. Right now, they're a bit picky (like most) and so we have a pretty limited set of maybe 5-6 dinner ...
4
votes
1answer
168 views

Is it okay to call children naughty?

Inspired by this question: Should our 3 year old boy be made to look at me while I am talking (during discipline)? In this question, the word "naughty" is repeatedly used to describe a child. I ...
4
votes
1answer
121 views

Why would a child choose to sleep on the floor?

My five year-old daughter has been sleeping on the floor lately. We've asked her why, but this is one of those situations where she's not very self-aware, and you have to probe to get to the bottom ...
4
votes
2answers
193 views

At what age does co-sleeping become detrimental to a child?

I'm making an assumption that there has to be an age at which co-sleeping no longer provides a benefit to either party and in fact is harmful to at least one of them. Are there any studies that prove ...

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