Questions tagged [video-games]
Questions regarding a child's use of video games may cover determining suitability, setting and enforcing limits, or other questions relating to what role video games play in a child's life.
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Limiting screentime, does it increase craving and addiction risk?
Edit: This question is specifically about screentime limits and cravings, there is no duplicate.
We have been limiting screentime for our son for several years now.
I am questioning if this is the ...
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How can I handle kids telling me extremely boring stuff?
I have a 9 and a 12 year old. They'll (either one) get into a video game and then want to talk about it.
Have you ever heard someone talk about, say, minecraft?
first i got some oak sticks, but then ...
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Are there any video games that are recommended for 6 year olds which might help development of cognitive skills and/or coordination? [duplicate]
I played some video games back when I was a teenager but never played anything since... I remember this as something addictive that took time away from what I now see as more important things. I now ...
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Could a three-year-old really have the cognitive abilities to make playable "Mario Maker" levels? [closed]
There is this famous YouTube content creator named James Rolfe. He does the "Angry Video Game Nerd" and other creations as "Cinemassacre". He is about 40.
In the last half year or ...
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How can I curb my (and my older brother's) game addiction?
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I live in a family of 7. We are a very tight-knit family, all living under the same roof, and we love each other dearly; but we have very strict rules about a lot of things, the one in this ...
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Explaining to a child the issues of inappropriate content and helping them pick cleaner games? Comforting a child after having to take away an Item?
My child got a video game from a friend's parent as a "gift". I didn't know what was in the game until we turned it on. For the first few minutes the game looked ok but later got dirty ...
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What age to introduce video games?
Our son of 5 has either only heard of video games from his mates or watched video game videos (of paw patrol and the like). Personally, I haven't played video games for about 20+ years now. The last I ...
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How to get my teenage son's enthusiasm back?
My son turned 13 today but, since he started secondary school (uk), 18 months ago, I have noticed a steady decline in his enthusiasm for...anything really, apart from playing computer games.
I am ...
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Mental effect of playing games and watching videos on mobile phones [duplicate]
My 3 years old kid plays games and visits YouTube for kids app on the mobile phone frequently. After some time some effort must be made to remove it from her. It seems like she is addicted to the ...
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In 2019, is Roblox safe for a 7 year old?
I have a 7 year old with ASD (I'll explain relevance in a bit), he has become obsessed with Roblox, I believe because one or two of his friends play it.
I know there have been some rumours about ...
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How can you make sure a game is suitable for children
While I'm not a parent myself, I have 3 nieces and nephews, and they're starting to show interest in video games.
Their parents do not know much about games, especially about the way they are ...
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Indulging mobile game obsession Pokémon Go in 6-year old
My 6-year-old son really enjoys his Pokémon Go, a game on the mobile phone.
Mainly because:
it is something he does with his dad (we are together but our son spends more time with me, and so he seems ...
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Help dealing with son addicted to video games. Would this app work?
My son is 15 years old and plays video games all the time. His grades are quite low now. I already tried a couple of things like rewarding him when he is studying, but with no effect.
I heard of an ...
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Up to how many hours of screen time is OK for a teenager for educational purposes?
My 14-year-old son loves programming and he’s been doing it since he was 10, although over the last couple of years, he’s been really serious about it. Hence, he spends around 2 hours and 15 minutes ...
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How can I get involved in the parenting of my girlfriend's sister's 5-year-old who spends too much time on screens etc.?
I am a 30ish years old man, living at my girlfriend's parents place for 4 months. It's been 2 months already, 2 more to go. I don't have kids (yet, but want to).
With us is my girlfriend's sister and ...
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Possible and adequate parental attitudes to a 10 yrs old playing a horror video game on smartphone possibly under group pressure
My 10 yrs old son has recently a copy of horror game (haunting scenes with ghosts/monsters having appearance of toys like teddies etc) app allowed from 16 years and his arguments are:
his friends in ...
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Reasonable amount of video game time for an 8 year old kid?
So, my kid brother, who’s 17, has been visiting me, my wife and kids. My son, Blake, loves Uncle Zach and loves spending time with him, which is great. Zach has brought some video games for him and ...
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How to deal with children going to friend's houses to bypass rules
In our house, as with most households I assume, there are lots of rules that we decided on, which might not be agreed upon by other families. Our son is 9 at the moment.
For example, to prevent video ...
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How to deal with excluding my son from the favourite activity of his peers?
This is about forbidding my son from participating in an activity all his friends partake in, not about the activity itself. How does one go about this when these are his only friends? (Please see ...
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What's the best way to teach a 5yr old to play chess?
My son figured out checkers a few months ago..but got bored playing when he realized chess existed and that there are a lot more variety of players and movements.
He also loves video games. Is there ...
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How to convince my wife that some digital gaming is beneficial
My wife was never a gamer. She has a deep hate towards the idea of our five-year-old son playing a video game yet she is totally OK with him watching up to 3 hours a day of Netflix Kids.
How do I ...
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While playing car racing games should i wait for my child to catch up or keep racing with other cars?
My soon to be 4-year old son plays car racing games with me on XBOX. Apart from the two of us there are 8 computer racers too.
He can drive well, he knows what to do and he knows we have to win and ...
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Is there a way to remove inappropriate ads and content for children using a shared phone?
Parents!
I share my mobile device with kids and let them play games. At that time I do my chores and have some time for myself. But I noticed that sometimes they watch inappropriate ads or even ...
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How to handle my little brother's addiction to videogames?
Here is a bit of context to start with:
I live 150 km away from my little brother. My father got remarried to another woman, with whom he had my little brother (let's call him 'Marc'). Since we grew ...
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Making reading books the only option on long car commutes a bad idea?
I have a 7 year old son in 1st grade. His school is rather far away, and it takes about 40 minutes for me to drive him there. We are a very busy family, and so I want this time in the car to be "time ...
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Separated parents. As a dad, how do I exercise tough love without being the bad guy?
I am a father to a nine year old boy, I am separated from his mother and have been since before his birth. We don't really get on but we are civil for his sake and communicate maturely as and when it ...
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5yr old Addicted to Mobile Devices - Need Advice!
So it started when he was 2yrs old, we gave him his first bad habit.. eating while watching youtube videos. It worked, he ate well..like a zombie. (Parent Fail #1).
Now at 5, he LOVES playing a ...
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My child wants GTA V for his birthday
My 10 year old son wants to play Grand Theft Auto V, which is PEGI 18.
My son has ADHD and I'm really worried that he will start acting like his favourite characters in the games and I don't want ...
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Should I play Minecraft with my kids?
All three of my sons, who are elementary-aged, enjoy playing Minecraft. We have two computers and two accounts, so we can play in multi-player worlds. They really seem to like it when I play with them ...
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Is it bad being a "bad influence" for my younger cousin?
First some background information:
I am a young woman in my early 20s, I lived alone since I was 18 relatively far away from home.
I graduated top of my class and I am studying and working in IT. (...
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Is it ok to play a computer game with a 3yo
My 3yo daughter has recently noticed me playing Craft the World, a game which is (mostly) about dwarves working and building their home, with hardly any violence. She wanted to know what it's about, I ...
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How do I change my Brother negative thinking, and bad attitude and addiction towards computer games
I'm his older Sister, 15 years old and my Brother is only 13 years old. He has been very addicted to the computer, online games and apps on tablets. Although this may seem like a common problem for ...
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Can having a computer game temporarily go blank when kids are too loud have adverse emotional effects?
There is a very popular question where a father says:
My kids (4 and 5) yell a lot when playing games on the computer. I
found an effective cure for this. When I hear loud noises, I [remotely] ...
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Are there good educational apps for a 4-year-old where learning unlocks play time? [closed]
I am looking for an app to make my 4-year-old son learn, for example to count and the alphabet, before he can watch videos or play games. Is there such an app? Ideally 1 minute of learning would ...
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Should I allow my 19 year old son to sleep during the day?
My son is 19 years old, he is a computer science student and has just finished college and is awaiting his grades. In September he will be going to University if he gets the needed grades which he is ...
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What to do with a disinterested 12-year-old boy?
My 12-year-old grandson does not have any interests other than video games. He can be a good student, but he does not turn in work and always complains about not having friends and nobody liking him. ...
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How do I solve my brother's fear of a creepy video game character?
I was playing a creepy little indie video game the other day (Undertale) and my brother (who is 9 years old) happened to watch me play for a while, despite my warnings that it might be scary or ...
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At what age child can get a game console?
I'm thinking about to buy xbox for my daughter 7-year birthday.
But I'm worry a little bit that it can be too early for this age and maybe it's better to wait?
I think playing is good for brain ...
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How to end 9-year-old's video game time with less stress?
My 9-year-old has been off of all technology for many months, and finally earned it back. He gets to play a 1/2 hour a day on my old iPod Touch.
Ending this time has always been stressful, and ...
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Is a (classic) GameBoy appropriate for my 1 year old son?
My son is very excited in using technical devices like our printer, our tablet or our wireless phone. I'm thinking of buying him a classic, black an white GameBoy (the grey one with big nobs), so that ...
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How to reduce Online Game Addiction?
What are some methods to help a teen who openly admits that they may be addicted to online gaming and wants help?
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Teen secretly playing video games when should be doing homework [closed]
If a son of about 14 years old, using his laptop to do schoolwork, secretly plays video games instead, should it be the parent's responsibility to find this out and stop him?
If the son finds it hard ...
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Gaming for Kids [duplicate]
My daughter is getting excited to be playing games with my wife and I. My issue lies in the fact that growing up (some time ago) I wasn't allowed to play games very often. Things change and I get that,...
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My teenager son is addicted to video games
I am a mother of a brilliant 18.5 year old young man who is obsessed with video gaming.
This is a habit that has existed since he was 13 years old and was exacerbated when his severe chronic cystic ...
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How should I teach my son to play video games?
My son will be 4 soon, and he already enjoys playing a few educational games on my tablet or his mother's phone (he plays maybe as much as an hour a week).
I'm a gamer, and we've tried playing a few "...
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Do all video games really have to be moderated?
I notice a lot of 'money for good behaviour'-type development question for kids here, and the main argument is some permutation of 'giving money for good behaviour does not help develop intrinsic ...
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Parental Control for Internet? [duplicate]
For a parent, how do we best control the content of the ENTIRE household's Internet in a centralized manner?
This settings of parent controls for individual network-based devices is maddening and ...
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Strategies to reduce computer game interest
We have a moderately strict rule about electronics time at the house -- as long as their homework, chores, or other responsibilities are finished, each kid gets to play a computer or video game for an ...
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How to handle different rules about video games at friend's house?
My 8-year old son, like many boys his age, is obsessed with video games. We try to have a rule at our house where he's allowed to play certain games that are appropriate to his age, for only a ...
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Enocurage or discourage playing video games to 4+ year old son
What precautions should I take to make it so my son does not become a games addict as he grows. I know what I have lost playing games for so many years when I was young.
My 4+ year old son (will be ...
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